How can i make our wedding day more memorable?

Question

My husband and I had a rushed marriage, (got married at the clerk's office) because he was deploying the next day. it was kinda a speer of the moment idea. But, we have been married for almost 4 years now and have two kids together. the thing is, i have no wedding dress, no pictures, no nothing to show our children or anyone else! i recently started thinking about this cause a friend of mine was talking about passing her dress down to her daughter. i would like to have something to remember our wedding day with...what could i do? also, what about a renewing of the vows thing? since we were rushed the first time, could we do it again the right way this time?

Answer 1

Definitely renew your vowels! You could have a pretty little ceremony, a beautiful dress (as simple or as elaborate as you like), include your children in the ceremony, and perhaps a family tradition. Afterwards you could either have a nice dinner with your guests, or have a reception/party with them. Have fun with it =] You both deserve it! If you don't have a lot of guests you could always include the ring warming ceremony. That's when you place your rings in a little nest or bag and pass them throughout the "audience," allowing each person a moment with them to wish you both well, and bless the marriage.  

Answer 2

i would do it on your 5 year anniversary

Answer 3

You could do it again.  I know multiple people who chose to renew their vows on their 10th wedding anniversary.  My sister just did hers last year.  It was a full blown wedding.  It was a lot of fun, but I will tell you the one thing that caused the most trouble was that she wanted everyone to pay for her wedding.  People thought since she was married and they had a house and had been living together that they weren't responsible.  Don't get me wrong it can be a great thing, it's just a little more sensitive and be careful how you approach everything.

Answer 4

Of course.   I have friends that went to a resort and renewed there vows on the beach.   I think it was free,  (sandals or something).  

A five year anniversary is a great time to do it.  Especially if it is something you want to do for each other.  

Answer 5

you should do the renewing vows thing!! it would be really cute and your children would be able to participate!!!

Answer 6

Of course you can renew your vows!  I have been to many of these ceremonies, and they have been very beautiful.

You can make it as formal/casual as you'd like--a church wedding, a picnic in the park, or a favorite family spot.

You can include your kids in the ceremony and invite guests to participate as well--playing music, each making a page for a scrapbook for you, etc.

Wedding favors could be crafts made by the kids at the reception.  The sky's the limit.  Enjoy!

Answer 7

In your case, I think I would wait for a milestone anniversary (such as 10, 20 or 25) and host a lovely party with a repeating of your vows.  I wouldn't do a traditional white wedding gown or try to replicate the big white wedding by any means, but you could wear a simple white dress and have your children act as attendants.  It would be beautiful and a great testament to your marriage.

Best wishes!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

perfect for a 5th anniversary! renew your vows! you could have a great "2nd" wedding. only this time it can include your children. i think the dress and photos are the best part. i also think your friends and family would enjoy seeing you "get married" again! if you and your husband already have the things you guys need, then you could request that any gifts be donations to your kids college fund.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Have a vow renewal for your 5th anniversary.  Have the kids be ring bearers and flower girls and get a dress and a photographer and have your friends and family there!