How can i make s*x with my girlfriend good for her?

Question

me and my girlfriend are having s*x for the first time

how can i make it special for her ;

if it hurts for her what should i do

where would she like to be touched and can anyone tell me where they like( i know its personal but i need your help)

all comment appreciated thanks

(btw we are both first timers)

Answer 1

1) Make the environment work for you by choosing the right lighting such as candles.

2) Use lubricants if it is ur first time and penetrate using ur tongue if it is her first time too.

3) Condoms for safe s*x.

4) Viagra.

Answer 2

first time..

most likely its going to hurt her..

and obviously your going to be highly aroused and all the rest of it but trust me, try not to think about the fact you want to s***w her.

Be slow and gentle and loving.  

Answer 3

before u have s*x or if you have before think about the things she seemed to really enjoy and then do that its probably gonna hurt her no matter what just ask her if shes ok and stuff like that if you havent ever fooled around then i guess  ur just goona have to ask her if its possible just try and bring it up in a conversation lol thats gonna be hard good luck remember protection and im tellinmmg u now about 3 or more ppl will say to wait till marriage i just want to say to them stop shoving ur beliefs down ppls throat their your beliefs these ppl have their own beliefs that are different then urs be mature and get over it!!!!! srry a lot of anger lol good luck o yea go slow that makes it less painful  have fun lol :   )

Answer 4

Make sure you have somewhere comfortable and safe where you won't be interrupted.

Get some condoms and proper lubricant (like KY jelly and NOT vaseline)

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.  Explore each others bodies - touch, kiss etc

Answer 5

it will not be nice for her for the first 2-3 times because it really hurts, but after that it will start to be pleasurable. you should just start by kissing and take it from there, ask her what she likes and how she likes it. there is no point asking other people because everyone is different she may like it slow or hard for example? dont expect miracles, if you are a first timer you probably wont last long it wont be how you see in the films its never is. but if you just go with your feelings it will be fine....hope you enjoy

Answer 6

It all depends on the girl some like it one way and some like it another just experiment with different ways. And if it starts to hurt her just slow down and take it slow and talk to her and make sure that she's comfortable with what you are doing. Whatever way you choose will be special enough for her.  

Answer 7

Ok - don't go straight in and have s*x... spend ages just kissing and building your way upto it.

Maybe not oral s*x, but just gets naked and spend some time looking at each other and kissing her neck and breast etc.

That should make her nice and wet and then it won't hurt so much.

To be honest, you'll probably put it in and come straight away, but try to keep going as long as possible nice and slow.

Don't be scared to pause and even pull out if you think you are going to come and don't want to.

Answer 8

This is probably not the answer that you'd like to hear but it works if you can control yourself.   Perform oral on her in a light, sensitive, leisurely way until she climaxes.... again.... and again....and again.....until she begs for you to enter her.   She may not beg for that during the first, second or third "days" of doing this - it may take 20 times.  At some point, she will either beg for it or you will realize that she is simply selfish and self absorbed and you should move on.  If you are patient and attentive, most women will get almost demanding in their insistence for the real thing -  then you have prepared really well because she wants it more than is she is afraid of the pain.  If she is so motivated that she will get on top - she will solve her own problem and you can just sit back and reap the profits of your patience.

Answer 9

You can give her my E Mail address. I am certainly better than you at making a girl enjoy herself.

Answer 10

It's normal for the first couple of time, that s*x may be a little sore for the woman, but with that said, not all women experience pain the first time. There isn't really anything you can do to lessen that, just be a little gentle. You need to ask HER what she likes, we are all different, talk to her.