How can i make the most out of my life from now on?

Question

I was bullied at school for 4 years and i have never really got my self-confidence back and i always feel so depressed when i think about it so i want to sort of 'start again'(if that's the right thing to say) -how can i do that?

Answer 1

first of all

you matter. your life matters. you deserve to live.

second

i feel it's best if you come to terms with the bullying...when your ready.

but to get the most out of life, do what you want. don't let anybody say you can't do it...except the law. murder is wrong.

but yeah. go to six flags or disneyworld. those are fun places.

you should also try skinny dipping. that's really fun. especially with other people =]

you should live in japan for a month and get in touch with the culture

or go to any other country you've ever wanted to go to

just live

Answer 2

get outside more. go do more things, whether it be alone or with a friend/acquaintance. you don't have to do anything exciting, but just participate in everything things. go see a few films, go to a few concerts, & try to connect with other people. i was picked on throughout middle school, i'm a high school senior now, & i have an amazing support system.  

Answer 3

Just take on a new self image. If you feel like people should like you, then they will. Try not to dwell on your past. It's only purpose at this point was to make you stronger. Focus on feeling good about yourself, and really learn to trust your instinct. Be confident and giving and fun to be around and don't hold back. good luck!

Answer 4

Live every moment like it is your last.

Do you want to live your last moments on Earth in fear or in some crappy attitude?

Answer 5

my dear friend you need to talk to yourself and build confidence and best way to build a confidence is to start with easy task you do and start enjoying it and slowly slowly when you build your confidence than move on to do some really hard work...and even though you don't succeed but enjoy it...the key is to enjoy and confidence...be smart..

Answer 6

You get it when you get older.  It's automatic.