How can i move on from him?

Question

it's so hard like i kinda like are relationship but i don't

I'm the kinda of girl who cant make up her mind i change my hair color all the time.

so i don't no if ill regret it.

I'm 17 omost 18 and he already talking about marriage

i never had a real realtionship where everything you do in your life has to be them it's hard i got pull into it way to fast

i have no idea what to do

it's been a year now it's even harder to say anything

if i said something like we should slow down a take a break you think he would understand or never talkt to me what would you do

Answer 1

First of all, if he really loves you, he will understand if you need a break.  He should wait for you and talk it out with you.  If he decides never to talk to you again, he's most likely a jerk, or maybe in shock and needs some time to think.  I'd just explain to him that you need some more time before you go too deep and can't get out.  It's impossible to know someone enough in one year and this can be a real test to tell you about who this guy really is.  I'd talk to him and ask to slow down a bit.

Answer 2

why are you so afraid,you need to speak your mind and has to listen...whats the rush on getting married,you're not even 18...you got sooooo many fun years to live ahead of you

Answer 3

If he loves you, he'll listen to you and understand that you want to slow down. If he gets mad at you for wanting to slow down, he's obviously only in the relationship for selfish reasons. I hope this helps, don't want you to get hurt in anyway.

Answer 4

well one year is to early to be talking of getting married. also ur probably too young. u should tell him how u feel. slow things down al little and if it doesnt work out u should break out and go for somethign a little less serious.