How can i overcome my embarrassment? He was just being honest.?

Question

My boyfriend told me in a very gentle way that something i DID in bed( without me purposly doing this) He was not feelin it....in fact it was just something bad. He brought it to my attention in a very gentle way and insured me that he still thinks im great in bed just minus that small detail.

I know its much better he told me than for me to continue doing it obliviously, but i CANT seem to get over my embarrassment thiinking back to the times i did it, maybe without my knowledge...and what he was thinking? I wonder why he still even likes me? How can i get over it whenever i think about it i get this sharp SHAMEFUL feeling and i hate it!

Answer 1

I think that now that he has told you, you should try and move on from this. At least he spoke openly to you about it and he is still with you. I'm sure he isn't embarrassed now, so you must put it behind you and try and forget now...

Answer 2

dont worry about it, as long as your willing to try some new things maybe and keep it exciting and get into it instead of lying there doing nothing, then you should be good. i understand how you feel cause i get pretty self conscious about my performance in bed and stuff, and if someone told me i did something wrong ide be embarassed. im curious what it is that he was saying you did wrong. then maybe i can give a better answer. anyways hope everything works out.

Answer 3

Hmm, Hard to tell you if we don't know exactly how serious the problem is.

Spit it out.

Answer 4

He cared about you enough to let you know in a nice way. Just watch it next time don't worry about it. He probably did everything he could to try and make sure you WOULDN'T feel like this. That is nothing to be embarassed about and certainly not anything to stop liking anyone over.

Answer 5

do whatever you did again and get a good laugh out of it!