How can i overcome the fear to fight? ?

Question

i feel like i can beat them but i dont want to do it. i am afraid of the consequences if i start the fight. any suggestions?

Answer 1

it depends on the situation that your in, like considering the area your in.This might not help you but ,I've been bullied often and i have the same problem Especially sense I know karate. I find it's better to stick with a crowd when your going somewhere or always hang out with friends not alone. And as  i said before it depends on the situation your in whether you did something and your at fault (probably an accident) or they want to fight because there bored or they dislike you.

Answer 2

Your fear is really not about the fight itself but of getting hurt . You shouldn't worry about starting fights . A person who starts fights is usually a jerk .... just figure out how to defend yourself if someone else starts a fight with you . AND a good martial arts course will give you the confidence to stand up for yourself.

Answer 3

once your mad the fear goes away and you just act!!

Answer 4

I'm assuming you're not talking about a fist fight, but a verbal one. If so, accept that the confrontation will be emotional - perhaps for both of you - and it will also manifest itself in a physical way.

You will feel your heart race and the blood rush to your face, but this will pass soon enough.

Remain calm. Don't show your fear. Take a couple of deep breaths. If you're on solid ground, your opponent will back down. If they escalate the fight, they'll simply look foolish.

Answer 5

Well, this is kind of a hard topic for me since I am a big guy and nobody has the ball's to fight me, but I guess never start it. If somebody does **** with you enough to p**s you off, you bet grab a rock and beat the shet out of them, but if not, stay away.

Answer 6

uh....that's a good thing.......why would you want to fight someone anyway......there are a lot of other ways to solve things than punching other people in the face.....

and its called being a pacifist.......and your concious is telling you not to be so angry and move on.........

be grateful.....some people have really bad anger management problems

Answer 7

Why don't you fight me.

Answer 8

Always avoid fighting. As much as you can.

If it's inevitable, be sure you have a scape route, knock one out right off the bat with whatever means. If the rest don't stop, run!

Answer 9

And you should be afraid of the consequences.  You could very well end up paying for medical bills, court and or jail or juvenile hall depending on your age.  Why do you feel the need to fight, to establish your rank with those you want to fight?  Sometimes having fear is a good response to have.  Fear keeps us from doing things that are foolish, such as playing with a loaded gun.  Most people have enough since not to play with a loaded gun because if it were to go off they don't want the consequence of being shot.

Answer 10

You just sorta have to "dive in". The hardest part to overcoming any fear is actually taking that first step towards it. Anyway, fighting doesn't do anything good, why the h**l would you want to do that, unless you are defending yourself.

Answer 11

Fight me.

Answer 12

i will tell you what i told my daughter, when she was beening pick on in school, i saidfight her, she said but she will hit me back and it will hurt, i said yes it will hurt, but if you hit her hard enought she will never hit you again;the next day she said mom you were right and it diding even hurt. the girl never pick on her again judy

Answer 13

don't beat em up, unless you really have to