How can i put the sparks back into my relationship after a baby? adults only?

Question

ok so i had a baby 3 months ago and everything is great aside from the relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. he's a great dad and all but how can i get him to be crazy over me the way he used to be? when i was pregnant i had NO s*x drive for almost the entire time...i would have s*x sparingly to make him happy but i had no appetite for it and since i've had the baby and am back to my old self how can we get back to the way things were. we usually had s*x about 2 times a day before the baby and could hardly keep our hands off each other now its only a quickie here and there and there isnt even any foreplay. im not satisfied at all and im getting bored and my eyes are beginning to wander, how can i get him to spice it up and be passionate about me the way he once was...especially getting the foreplay back i miss the oral!!

Answer 1

do exactly what you did 12 months,5 hours and 30 seconds ago before you got pregnant. and this time. LOUDER..and more moaning.

GOOD luck!

Answer 2

The first thing you need to do is figure out why your s*x drive is low and try to help get it back.  I was in your situation and it's not fun without being horny and feeling in the mood when needed.  I also felt like my orgasms (if I would even get one) were really weak.  Probably because of my s*x drive.

However, I tried exercising and dieting but nothing seemed to be working.  I thought I was screwed.  I then found something just as amazing as the vibrator.

My friend at work told me about this stuff she took to raise her s*x drive.  It was a natural herbal supplement and was I lucky to of found it.  Theres no side effects and the s*x drive is just tremendous along with orgasms that are blasting.  The stuff is called Hersolution pills.  At the time I saved money on them at herenhancement.com

What I did was tried out for 3 months and that was really it.  I found taking them every other day or so was the best to stretch it out. After the months were up, I was back to normal with a beating s*x drive and my o****m strength in increased so much.  

Well good luck and I hope this helps.

Answer 3

I know that this is hard.  Men can get used to the "no s*x" during pregnancy.  Do things to him to get him going.  Give him the best ever and he wont be able to keep his hands off of you.  Give him a private dance, or even surprise him in the middle of the night with some oral.  It may take him a week or so, but after being so spontaneous for a while he will expect it so if you stop, he will be trying to get things started.