How can i reject him after unintentionally leading him on?

Question

I in no way do this often so don't judge,

I've been hooking up someone for the past few(3) weekends, he has interpreted this as possibly leading into some sort of relationship where as for me it was more like a spare of the moment bit of fun. I am now constantly being called to catch up and such when i have no intention of doing so.

helppppppppp. I feel really bad.

Answer 1

just tell him quick, be nice but be as honest as u hafta be. he'll understand, cuz guys do this a lot too

Answer 2

yes

Answer 3

if you wanna just hook up you got to tell the guy that it isnt goin to go anyfurther

but now just bring it up one day like ' you know this isnt goin to lead anywhere serious right cuz i dont want you to fall for me '

Answer 4

sher rite.

Answer 5

tell him you're sorry and say that you unintentionally were leading him on.

Answer 6

sorry, but you should feel bad, if i was in that position i would be so cut.

Answer 7

Okay, i know you have probably been told this 400 times but, the best thing you can do is talk to him, tell him how you feel. It might be the most awkward moment of your life, but you have to do it. Think of it this way, if he asks you out, and you feel bad so you say yes, you are then leading him on even more, so it gets you nowhere. You really have to tell him whats up before you break his heart.

Answer 8

explain to him that you want to stay friends. say something like i really like having you as just a friend. lol something that would make it clear to him that your not intrested..  

Answer 9

I know what that feels like. And truth be told the best thing to do is just be honest. Tell him that you really want to be friends and your not ready for a relationship. If you ignore him then that's just going to make you feel low and look bad on your part. And you don't want to be known as the girl who plays mind games or uses men. That word of the mouth might really mess up something that could happen when you do actually meet a guy you like.

If your honest and upfront, but nice and classy about it, there will be no hurt feelings. He should respect the fact that at least your being honest. And if he asks you why did you lead him on or whatever, tell him that you didn't mean to and you didn't think he would actually like you like that or want to be more then friends.

If he is any type of man he will respect the fact that your being honest with him and that you want to be friends.  

Answer 10

i will judge YOU SUCK  

Answer 11

Ahh.

I have the exact same problem right now.

:(

Answer 12

Haha uhh I'm gonna judge you and say you're a b i tch, if you're going to get into a relationship with no commitment, you should have talked to him and make sure you were both on the same page. w***e.

Answer 13

hurry and let it go now

if you dont and drag him on

well its gonna bit you in the ***

and like really hard too

so end it now or never

you choose

Answer 14

Tell him you are sorry for leading him on. Have the courage to speak the truth. Nothing else will resolve this.

Answer 15

Start getting fat and become super unattractive.

Answer 16

dumk him and than make out with him one last time (:

Answer 17

tell him that you don't feel that way with him.