How can i sort my life out? or how can i run away?

Question

i'm 13, and having allott of trouble at home. my mum and dad split up when i was one and a half, so i can't remember living with him, also he loves my sister allott more than me and makes it obvious. My nan also just passed away and i'm not sure how well i'm dealing with it. my mum is having a go at me foreverythingg and anything i do & i can't cope anymore. i just want to die, but i know i can't do that to myself, so the only other option is to run away, as i'm not aloud to live with the dad, but i don't know how i can do it when my mum is mostly always at home, and i don't know where to go. also i've tried talking to my mum about it but she just shouts at me again so i gave up, and i've tried talking to my dad but he just laughs, please help!x

Answer 1

Hey being 13 kills I know because of wanting to be a child and an adult. If you need someone to talk the website below. They are good people  and you won't be laughed. Remember that there is God that is bigger than you. I recommend also is search in a phone book for a Baptist Church. Well, I hope it helps. And you are worth more than anyone can tell you. You are someone else eyes that I want to be like her when I grow up.

Answer 2

I ran away and it made me a very independant person, i met the man of my dreams, and i'm doing better than ever. the most important part is that i am happy. my advise is for you to WAIT until your 16 (as i did) get a car, your best friend (to watch over you) and pick a state at least 5 states away from yours. If you do run away, do not tell anyone but the person your doing it with. DO NOT GO ALONE. and do not just leave without a plan. plan it out, every aspect.

Answer 3

I suggest trying to find time on your own to get into a hobby or maybe write about your feelings in a notebook.  Focus on finding the strength inside of you, and know that with time and hard work, you can overcome the trials that are set before you.  If you're finding it difficult to do the things you want because you are 'forbidden' to do so, try to find others ways to connect to those things, maybe try to find some friends that share your interests.  I've been there before, and about 15 years later, its my parents that are distraught over how they treated me because I'm the one doing better now.

Answer 4

Your mom is stressed. Don't blame her, All parents yell. Don't die on her, she wouldn't be able to handle that. Try to help out around the house, because since she's divorced she doesn't have another parent to help out. If your dad loves your sister more than you, too bad for him. He is missing out. You don't need a dad who doesn't love you. Don't run away!!! Like you said, there's no where to go. You'll end up on the street, and believe me, that sucks.

Answer 5

Running away never solves anything. It just gets you into more trouble...and your problem is still there when you get back.

I'll say a prayer for you. God doesn't give us more than we can handle. Although the problems seem really big right now....ten years from now you won't even remember them. Keep your chin up. Things will get better.

Answer 6

Life always sucks when youre 13 lol. SInce your grandmother just passed away, your mother is under alot of stress. Focus on other things, like school, and maybe your appearance, that's what I did, and it really did help me get through my middle school years :)

Oh also TRY TRY TRY to do what your mom says, stay out of her way, and not scream at her or talk back, trust me i know its hard but it works!

Answer 7

Running away won't solve anything except put you on dangerous streets alone.  That will only create more problems.

You need to talk to someone else in authority - a teacher, school counselor or another relative.  someone that can talk to your parents on your behalf about your problems.  Maybe you can live with some other relatives or friends for a month or a few months??

Maybe just talking to a counselor can help get you through how you're feeling.