How can i stop being so lonely?

Question

i see my friends actually all the time but i really miss having a boyfriend though im lonely alot anyways

i dunno what to do except get aboyfriend which is an obvious answer

im just always feeling so lonely

Answer 1

i know what you mean

try to use the time to do stuff to better yourself, like reading or learn guitar or anything like that

the more interesting you are the more youll be attractive to guys

Answer 2

boyfriends are not what they are cracked up to be learn to love be happy and content with yourself and your life... i wish i had done this instead of having so many regrets at being so reliant on others to happy

Answer 3

Hi

Yeah a boyfriend could be the answer or maybe you need to do something different  with your life that will make you feel more fore filled .

Deep down only you know why you feel lonely , but for many people its about a feeling of having something missing in their lives and it's not always about having people around you.

Hope things get better soon good luck  : )

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Answer 4

hi we all get lonely and not having a partner can make u question yourself and let you have low self esteem, its nice just having someone around to have laughs, cuddles and all the good stuff that comes with it.  But keep smiling and be positivre good things will come 4 u its nice you still got friends around to keep your mind occupied, a boyfriend will come to you when u least expect it, take things slow and he will be putty in your hands, good luck

Answer 5

   Start reading some of the 'classics"

    Find something you like to do: draw, paint,  tinker ;            

    cultivate some hobbies.. When you learn to enjoy your own

    company you will not need other people to make your day.

   At the same time you will become a more interesting person .

           By all means, do not 'get a boyfriend' just because you

   are lonely.  Such a relationship might be the beginning of a disaster.

    

Answer 6

awwwwww

maybe you should find yourself a good hobby which would increase your confidence, like dancing or martial arts

Answer 7

let me tell you something

millions of women are married and feel lonely so man isn't the answer for sure

start to read*new generation don't think reading is cool but its*

start to work out ,change your life style a bit ,go and help small kids that get abused in their houses *this will show you better not to go for having a baby*LOL*thing as if men *most of them are pain in the world

start to study a new thing,learn a skill ,don't just stand in your spot saying I'm bored and lonely that wont push you any place further then the same spot

after 10 years you either be a smart wealthy woman who has good career and reputation and do something very good in her life or you will be knocked up with a baby and having 4 supporting them and working as a SINGLE MOTHER in a cafe ,everyone take advantage of you

you are what you choose to be

Answer 8

Boyfriends can be great, but if you are with the wrong guy it can be very painful and you can feel even more lonely.  I don't think a boyfriend is necessarily the solution to your loneliness.

Sometimes loneliness is a kind of a stage of life thing.  For example, lots of teenagers feel lonely because there are so few people who understand them, and at that stage of life people very much want to be understood and accepted.  

Feelings of loneliness are also common after breaking up with a partner.  It takes a while to regain the sense of being content as an individual.

How close are your friendships?  Are your friends people you can truly trust?  Have you talked to them about how lonely you sometimes feel?  Some really good friends can help with those feelings until you get to a point where you feel more secure.

Answer 9

I've found that some of my greatest thrills have been when I was alone- sometimes. I plan an outing, such as eating out on a restaurant patio on a hot day, and watching people stroll by. Or I may sit in the car enjoying a cold frapuccino while talking to God. On other occasions I may pamper myself with a big delicious dinner while lying on my bed and watching a classic movie,etc.

In any case, whether alone or not, I've learned to make myself content without depending on people to always be with me. Happiness depends on what HAPpens to you. Joy is meant to be constant, which comes from being in a relationship with God, by believing on and confessing Jesus Christ. He's promised to never leave me or forsake me.  

Answer 10

FREE YOUR MIND and the rest will follow

Answer 11

You can stop being lonely in a second by stopping thinking about yourself!  

When we feel the need to be with another, we do so in order to escape  our loneliness. In that case is that love? All other actions have motive whereas love has no motive. If we attach ourselves because we want to be loved, is that love, can you love when you are thinking of yourself? Where there is a feeling of loneliness, love is not. Can we love without possession? Someone once said that the less you have a need to be with anybody then the more intelligent you are. Can we not just love, love life, love ourselves, love nature, love animals and from that inner goodness we can express love to whoever we meet without needing to own them.

No one can describe love but everyone can show it.

See what love is not - jealousy, competitiveness, ambition, sadness, loneliness, anger, hatred, bigotry racism and then what is left may be close to love.

Where there is love the problem is simple, where there is no love the problem becomes complex.