How can i stop being sooo crazy jealous

Question

im very pretty and my boyfriend is in love with me but im always thingking hes lookin at other girls i stopped hanging out with my friends over it and i feel like i cant get over it i feel syco

Answer 1

Guys look at women. It is part of who they are. They are very visual, but it doesn't mean he doesn't think you are the prettiest or love you any less. Let him look. As long as he doesn't ogle them, make sounds or yell things, then snicking a look is acceptable. Go to www.cosmopolitan.com and read some articles about this subject. The magazine has many good articles regarding this subject and can put your mind at ease. Good luck

Answer 2

the only thing i can think of is have a talk with your boyfriend

im sure if you word it in a cunning kinda way he wont think youre too phsyco and jsut be flattered that lsoeing him would be that devestateing to you

it couldnt do any harm

i mena at the least he'll reasure you osme more about how 'youre the only girl for him'

and if you arent ready to sit down and have this kinda discussion with him

thne your relationships probably jsut started out

and i think its only natural to be insecure when you first get with osmeone you really liek

liek beofere its settled down yet

Answer 3

girls, young ladies, women (very pretty ones I might add ) R everywhere. we all live on this planet, unless you plan on moving 2 a nother planet, where there aren't any women.U will continue 2 b jealous, b/c women R here 2 stay.There's no way around that. unless you make him walk around with a blind fold on everytime U go out 2gether, or get rid of ALL the televisions, and computers,ect.(smile)LoL

Answer 4

Sounds like your pretty self concious about some things most likely. He probably does "look" at them and there is absolutely nothing wrong with him looking at other women. Your' real fear is that he is going to think they are more attractive and think of them in a sexual way or perhaps he might even not want you anymore because you are not pretty enough, right? If you let this feeling get the best of you it can cause chain reactions that will lead you to being overbearing, jealous and maybe even controlling and you will lose him for sure. Do you think he finds you attractive? you should know if he does by the way he looks at you. If he finds you attractive and you treat him well and you guys are both happy then you have nothing to worry about. Just try to understand that it is normal and healthy for both you and him to notice other attractive people. You notice other attractive guys, right? does it mean you dont want your boyfirend anymore? Well, just take a deep breath and know everything is fine. Now you should appologize to both him and your' friends for reacting the way you did. This behavior can cause you to lose both your' boyfriend and your friends.

Good luck