My boyfriend is very generous, hes worked in Iraq for the last 3 years and earn alot of money, but when i met him all that he'd earnt was pretty much gone. At the time he'd just got home from iraq and his phone kept going but he was ignoring it, i got a bit paranoid and ended up asking what was goig on, turns out a friend of his was after £20 he said he'd lend her for xmas pressies. I asked why he had to leand it to ehr and he was like 'oh it'll stop her keep pestering me' turns out shes already borrowed a lump sum over over £600 and not paid it back and the cheeky cow was asking for more!!
Then he tells me how when his ex left him afetr he found out she'd been shagging about whilst he was in Iraq, she drained him of pretty much all he ahd by saying how she couldnt afford anything to lvie blah blah blah...and he being a softy and still lving her gave her thousands
Anyways, now hes with me, a single mum of one living in a council house. Thigns get tight and right now ive saved up for a car but cant find one, and with my son now at school i need t get a hob, but living where i do i need a car to get one (im in a remote little vilage, nearest shop 5miles away!) Thing is, the min i say i really need smething or im down because of money, he instantly offers me it! I lvoe him for him, and only him, i dont care about his money, i just want him to be with me...i adore every mm of him, hes so special. I tell him my problems because as a couple we share everything and i dont want to lie to him, but we've only been together since october, we dont lvie together, we havnt taken any steps to move closer to each other. He has no need to give me anything and i dont want it.
How do i stop him thinking im like all the others? his so called friends and ex. How can i make him see i lvoe him for him, id love him if he was rich or poor
Im not ungratful, i appreciate all he does to help me. I allow him to treat me to a night out, i allow him to get my son a toy when he's home. But I dont need money and big gifts to love someone.
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