How can i stop it from hurting?

Question

ok so, me n my boyfriend were goin out for about 5 months and out of nowhere he breaks up with me because he said all my friends dont like him n it was getting annoyin. i know my friends dont like him but this never seemed to bother him before. so when he broke up with me i didnt care at 1st because i was just so shocked it took a while for the break-up to really dawn on me. so then we got back together 2 days later n i was so happy. he said he realized he made a mistake n he needs me. we been back together for about a month now and the break up hurts more then it did when it 1st happened. for some reason it took the break-up 2 weeks to really start hurtin. i think it took so long to hurt because we got back together so quickly. but i cant stop thinkin about how much he hurt me. for the past 2 weeks its been hard for me to look at him, talk to him, hug him, kiss him, and everything else. and i'm afraid we might break up again because we barely talk anymore. i havent talked to him in 3 days. how can i get over this??? and move on with our new relationship??? why does something that happened a month ago still hurt so baddd???

Answer 1

b/c your realizing that nothing lasts forever.. your scared you will lose him again... and that hurts you. You NEED to talk to him! tell him how you feel! it will help him understand why you've been acting different and it will also bring you guys closer. COMUNICATION and honesty are the biggest things in a relationship! hope this helped! good luck!

Answer 2

Maybe because it doesnt feel right to you. You dont have ne answers. If he couldnt stand them not liking him then why can he now? Maybe you should take some time away from him to analyze your true feelings and decide if u can really stand to be in a relationship with him