How can i stop myself from crying every time i here the song Gone Forever by Three Days Grace

Question

b/c my ex-gf killed herself in my arms and i didn't see it comming and i keep blaming myself i knoe i shouldn't blame myself but i still do how can i get over that cuz i want 2 here that song w/out crying

idk really she had 1 bullet and that was the end

Answer 1

it's okay...it seems that it is a part of the grieving process for you...you can't blame yourself...and some time down the road, you will be able to listen to it without feeling like this....people can do horrible things and it was awful, that she did this in your arms....try not to punish yourself, for her sins...it wasn't your fault.

Answer 2

maybe you are guilty of the crime.you sure she killed herself??

Answer 3

I'm sorry you've suffered such a terrible experience.

What she did wasn't your fault.  Even if you were fighting or whatever, she made the selfish decision to end her life.  Accept that and move on as you're able to.  It'll take time, but you can.

As for listening to the song without crying?  Sit and listen to it over and over, eventually you'll become more desensitized to it and be able to hear it without always crying.  It'll still happen occasionally, but not as often and probably will be more of a tearing up thing than all-out crying.