How can i suport my best friend? i feel so helpless?

Question

my best friend has just been broken into there were two strange men in her house when she woke up anything could of happen but luckly she was very lucky and police came and caught one of the men.

However shes now very very unease and nervus and wont go out and doesnt feel safe in her own home what can i do to help her. i feel so useless i want to make her feel safe again but i just dont no what to do and its killing me i cant be there for her!

any sugestions

thanks

Answer 1

If her house has just been broken into then you might need to give her more time. Dont rush it, when it's been more then a month then you might want to take action but for now it might be too soon.

Answer 2

Dear, First let me appreciate and thank you personally, because in this world people like you are very less, don't worry every thing will be fine. Ask her to mail to my ID and i will help any thing and every thing under the sun.

Regards

Loved one

Answer 3

your friend needs to go to her local G.P to be able to talk to some one about how she is feeling

Answer 4

take selfdefence lessons together and then go buy safer locks for her and install them. perhaps a security cam if you can afford it. also tell her you will always be on speed dial if she needs you. make her understand that no matter what the time she can call you. that would definately make me feel safe. if it doesnt help her, take her to therapy.  

Answer 5

thats such a terrible thing that happend and I would feel the same, of course I would never be the same person I was before. What would help, if I was in that situation is tell her about how secure the house is now. That theyve installed new locked etc and show her that the house is safe. i dunno something like that x