How can i talk dirty in bed with out being embarrassed?

Question

my boyfriend likes to hear dirty talk in bed but i just don't know what to say i tried but i just cant help to feel shy awkward and embarrassed..

Answer 1

just tell him to go s***w a frog, that should get something going !

Answer 2

lol

that was funny

Answer 3

Take control of the situation. Tell him what you want him to do, and how to do it. Tell him what you want to do, and how your going to do it. Let your inhibitions go, and get WILD! Your going to have to "cuss like a sailor", and get nasty!!! Take control.

Answer 4

1 it takes time to get used to doing anything that you are not familiar with. Practice makes perfect.

#2 it takes the RIGHT person to make you want to & feel comfortable doing it!

Good luck!

Answer 5

have him start the talking

Answer 6

Here's how I answered this question when someone asked me:

Great question!  Talking dirty can mean a lot of different things.  Remember that there is no right or wrong only what you feel comfortable and willing to do.  Below are a few suggestions to work  into your sexual repertoire.  Try them and see what works for you.

1.  Ask your partner for some examples of what he/she would like to hear.  This way you get a clear idea of expectations.  You can also address any concerns you might have like sounding silly or being ridiculed for what you say.  You can also make this a reciprocal activity by asking for things you'd like your partner to say to you.

2.  Get vocal!  Words are not the only way.  A good way to get started is by making some noise.  Some well placed moaning can be a real turn on.

3.  Encouragement and narration.  If the thought of s**y talk still has you feeling awkward, try encouragement and narration.  Encouragement involves telling your partner how good something feels.  You might say something like, "That feels so good when you do that.  Please don't stop."  Narration is just stating the action that's happening without the editorial comment.  "Oh, light touches on my thighs."

4.  Not everyone is comfortable with saying "bad" i.e. cuss words.  You can work around this by using the technique used in romance novels.  Remember how things pulse, throb, grow, hunger, swell?  You can use descriptive words like these.  I recommend glancing through a few novels to familiarize yourself, if you haven't already.

Here's a good site for helping you with descriptions typically used in romance novels.    

http://home.epix.net/~jlferri/sexrom.htm...

5.  Don't limit yourself to only using dirty talk during s*x.  You can use it to build anticipation.  Whisper something in his/her ear on your way out the door to start the day.  Make a call during the day and whisper a few more.  Tell him/her what you'd like to do later that day.  Here's an exercise for you to try:

With clothes still on and in a room other than the bedroom, take turns telling each other what you'd like to do to each other.  It's a great form of foreplay!  Then, of course, proceed to act on what you just talked about.

6.  Get comfortable with what you want to say by practicing it, especially those "dirty" words.  Say it out loud by yourself starting with a whisper and increase your volume until you feel like you can shout it out.  "I want you to **** me real hard!";   "I love it when you suck on my p***y.";  "Your c**k is so hard I can't wait until it's inside of me.".

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www.

yourgreatsexguide.com/dirtytalk.php