How can i talk my mom into letting me get my belly button pierced..?

Question

i asked her and she said i can get it pierced on my birthday [gonna be 16 birthday in june] how can i ask her if i can get it done before then..?

Answer 1

just ask her, the worst thing she can say is no, n if she does just wait until your birthday

Answer 2

umm

idk i know in

past expierences

with my parents when

you keep asking they

get mad so...

but if you have any other

peircings say you let me get____

when i was only___

like i was suppossed to wait

to get my cartlidge till

i was 13 or 14 and i got it done

when i was 12 so

Answer 3

Tell her that you want it done in November so that you can have it for swimsuit season! Because if you get it done in the summer you aren't allowed to go swimming and they take 6 months to heal.

Oh, and they aren't painful.. Mine only hurt like a normal ear peircing for the first few days afterwords. They are quite fun.

Answer 4

I allowed my daughter to get her belly button pierced when she turned 16, but with stipulations. And it was only after I had thrown every question in the book at her. I wanted to know why.

I had to go with her to sign as she was under 18. And I told her...you better make sure you take care of it because if it gets infected, I am NOT taking you to the Dr. You will make your own appointment and find your own ride there. You will pay for any medications you need to take care of the infection. I made the whole thing her responsibility.

She did fine for the first 6 months. Her cousin gave her a Christmas present for her belly button and she ended up having an allergic reaction. (Be very wary of piercings that contain nickel!!) I took her to the Dr. for that because it wasn't her fault. She ended up letting it close then got it repierced at 17 and she hasn't had a single problem.

For a mom it's a responsibility thing with us. We don't want you putting things in/on your bodies that may cause you harm. We look at the big picture. If you pierce your nose, lips, etc., we look at it that, when you go to apply for a job, you won't get hired because of your looks. And there are employers who will not hire you if you have anything pierced other than your ears.

It's hard for us to let go of our daughters. We have different values and we try to pass them on. But as you grow, you develop your own values and that scares us because they're so different from our own.

Just have the patience to wait until you're 16. It's not that far away...don't wish your life away...once it's gone, you can't get it back. My daughter graduated high school in June, started college 3 days ago and missed high school the night she graduated. She realized, when she walked out of the parking lot, that it was her last time leaving that school as a student.

Answer 5

Don't do it trust me! it can go to serious desise and infections + it hurts to get one.

Answer 6

well it can be quite hard to change your parents minds. when they have a strong grudge about something, they usually keep that until you are old enough or something. you could just wait until your birthday or just go and do it yourself. if you need a parent for permission, just take one of your friends parents that doesn't really care and would let you get one. i don't know. try anything. just keep asking though. you never know.

Answer 7

jusd do it i got my tongue ring without my mom permission and she didnt even say nothing and i thought she was, but tell her that you going to get good grade

Answer 8

Hold up a thumb-tack and say "it's either this or the real thing..."

Answer 9

why do it? it hurts and it can get infected, just wait until your birthday. I wouldn't let you do it at all!