How can i talk to him about this?

Question

Me and my "friend", really really like each other. We been on a couple of dates and been kissing and all that jazz. Theres just one thing. He's 18 im 14. legally theres is nothing wrong with us going out aslong as we don't have s*x. But he is worried about what his family expecially his parents will think if he tells them about me. Of course i had to tell my mum. He doesn't want to tell anyone about me till i turn sixteen. But thats so long away. And i care for him so much. I trust him so much. I've told him things about me that i have never told another soul.I wanna be a part of his life. I wonder if he is ashamed of me. I know maybe its selfish but i wanna meet he's family. Even if its just as his friend. How can i talk to him about this??

Answer 1

hate to break it to you, but if he was just a "friend" he wouldn't kiss you or do other things. If he really respected you, he wouldn't do that unless you were dating. and of course he doesn't want to tell his parents because he would look like a pedophile. He only wants you so he can get things from you

Answer 2

He really loves u but I dont think u wanna see him in jail so gal give him some time and evrything will be all rite and best of luck.Its very conforting to date ur best frn bec u have been frnds for a long time and he knoes abt u

Answer 3

haha girl don't worry about it.

i have been through your same situation.

i am 17 and my boyfriend is 23.

we've been dating since i was 14.

he was 20!

if you all really want it to last... it will.

sneak around, have fun!! its life so you gotta take risks.

when you turn 16 technically he wont be able to go to jail.

trust me i know all about that stuff haha.

dont stress over it girl, it will work out for itself.

talk to him, tell him what you think. he'll understand!

good luck! =)