How can i tell if my wife had a tubal ligation. she says she can still have kids. i dont believe her.

Question

my wife told me when we first met that she had a tubal ligation done. she told me this because at the time i was convinced i didnt want anymore children. a few months after we got married i mentioned that i regret the fact that we would not be able to have a child together. she then told me that she hadnt had the tubal ligation done and that she would be able to conceive. to tell you the truth how can i tell if she had the operation done? she has scars on her stomach but she says they are from the removal of her gall bladder and appendix. im frustrated and i dont know what to believe. i know that she loves me a lot and i believe that she is just scared to admit that she had the procedure because she may think i might want to have a child with another woman, or that i may be mad at her for lying. can u help me?

Answer 1

Wow it sounds like she may have deeper issues.  Wheres the trust?

Answer 2

This is grounds for an annulment of the marriage if you wish to pursue it. You married her under false pretenses (you believed that she would not be able to conceive due to an operation she told you she had performed).

If she is lying, then you SHOULD be mad at her, and she SHOULD be scared.

Answer 3

so tell you want to adopt  a child! and dose she have other kids? i know in some stats you have to 25 or already have 5 kids before you can get this done! and the only way you can tell is having a doc tell you r see if she gets pregnant!