How can i tell someone i am sorry

Question

i have been so nasty and hurtful to a man who i through liked me.he has his own busness,i've had a crush on him for a few years we were friends but not now i called him a stalker for driving past my house all the time he kept saying it was not him and i didnt belive him.I told him how much i liked him .he did not like me any time.I am sincerely sorry to him Because he has shown me some attension i've through he liked me but i've got it wrong.i broke up with ex 9yrs ago and i was really happy for the first time in yrs and then he come and works with me and mess my head up i've emailed him and said how sorry i feel about the whole thing and all the love and hurt i had for my ex i put on to him

Answer 1

say sorrrrrrrrrrry?

Answer 2

well to be honest it takes a big person to apologize for their actions.  Just say:

I know iv put a lot of preasure on you and i was wrong to call you a stalker.  I'm very sorry for my actions.  How can I make it up to you?  

Answer 3

say "I am sorry"

Answer 4

Never say,"I'm sorry." Always say,"I apologize."

Answer 5

Say im really sorry on a note and pass it to him with a gift and give it 2 him

Answer 6

This sounds complicated, and i kind of know how it goes....Sounds this situation may be to far gone, for now. Sending an email was the right thing to do, it gives him a chance to read it and think about if he wants to reply.  

Answer 7

Tell him you're sorry and explain your actions with making a lot of excuses. I would tell him that you've had a crush on him for years and you freaked out. Good luck.

Answer 8

Poppet, you have done all that you can.

You have Emailed, apologised and admitted you were wrong.

Now you must try and put this behind you,

Forget the incident and him.

You have not commited the crime of the Century,

just let things carry you away for a while.

If you continue to contact this man,for any reason you will be encouraging unwanted attention.

Put this down to another one of Lifes Experiences,and carry on with your Life as Happily as you can.

Good Luck SweetHeart.

Answer 9

I am with others, a simple I am sorry does more good than all the fancy things in the world.  

Answer 10

By saying sorry. Nothing fancy.

Answer 11

It looks as if you have apologised already by e-mail so now you need to forgive yourself for appearing foolish and realise that we all make mistakes.

Just move on now and see this as a learning experience.

Answer 12

you should sit down with them face to face, look them in the eyes and truly apologize like you mean it.

***maybe even through in a few tears*** :]

Answer 13

Perhaps if you gave him a quick snog it would help.

Deary me I thought this was a good idea but I have read the other comments and I feel embarrassed more than anything.  Although I still think it might be a good idea.

Answer 14

Sounds like you need to learn to love yourself first before you get into a relationship.  You seem really lost and confused about your own feelings.

Answer 15

You seriously need some help!

Answer 16

Think about what you did. Why did you do it? How do you think it made him feel? It might help to write these things down. Then observe them. How can you make it better? Brainstorm. Then organize your thoughts into an apology letter. Let your feelings out. Explain how sorry you are, and that you understand how it made him feel. Identify you did something wrong and the words will start to flow. Then, write the letter over in neat handwriting (Make it personal. Typing it would be unacceptable and not from the heart.) Stick it in an envelope with a little gift of gratitude, and send. You might wanna make a follow up call a week later, to make sure hes recieved it. Hopefully, this letter will help heal his wounds. :)

Answer 17

"I sincerely goofed up and I have treated you so badly, that I am completely embarrassed by my actions. Please accept my apology. I was in a bad relationship before and those feelings got the best of me and I shouldn't have directed my fear towards you. I'm sorry. Please forgive me."

Answer 18

Well i'm confused...

But just say that you were wrong, and why you were wrong.

Tell him you are really sorry.

And ask him what could you do to make things better?

Answer 19

Just tell it like you mean it by saying how you feel and what's on the inside you feeling, good luck and hope it works.

Answer 20

In life you can not make people like you, you have apologised, now leave it and move on.

Answer 21

be really sincere, get him a personal gift if you'd like - just make sure you put thought into it to make sure he understands that you really mean it.

Answer 22

just tell the person how sorry u are.

tell wat's truly in ur heart to him

Wish you Good Luck! :)

Answer 23

Well try to sincerely sit him down in a nice restaraunt and explain to him exactly how you feel.  You have hurt him but explain to him that you didn't mean to and just tell the truth.  The truth always wins.

Answer 24

you have to open up your heart to him and say sorry and let him know you mean it....good luck  

Answer 25

"I'm sorry."

Mission accomplished.

Answer 26

"im sorry for being a d**k"

Answer 27

easy like this "hey, im sorry"

Answer 28

you should call him and tell him your sorry thats what i would do    

Answer 29

i wouldnt bring an ex in it...just apologies and say you were wrong and would like to reinstate a friendship if he's open to it...but just apologieze and he'll appreciate it...guys love when girls actually admit they're wrong

Answer 30

someone cant right this for you.

you have to say whats true. what you think. everything comes from the heart. describe it in a way that he will understand. the only way this is going to turn out right is if you say it how you want to and not other people.