How can i tell to her about the argue?

Question

me and my dad argued many times about my relationship with her. he hated her for me, thinking that she's bad person for me. I didnt flinched or say anything back but tears inside. At the meantime, my friends knew it and they told me to tell the argue to her but i know she'll get hurt if i tell her....pls. help. or give me the other ways to tell her.

Answer 1

i knw how u feel tell her that u wanna be her friend and thts tht

Answer 2

1 - don't argue with your dad any more.  If he has comments to make leave the room or pretend to listen.

2. - don't tell your girl friend.  why tell her something that is private between you and your dad?  why tell her something that she nor you can do anything about but will make her feel bad?  That is just selfish on your part to want her to share in your problems with your dad.

On the other hand, stop long enough to really listen to what your father is saying.  Is any of it true?  Are you different around her because of her actions - emotions ?  If you are and if there is some truth then maybe you should cool your jets with this girl for awhile.

Answer 3

Tell your father to mind his own business. Its not his life.

Don't give up your friend because of your Dad.

Your Dad will always be your Dad.

Your friend won't always be there.

So make the best of what time you do have with her now.