How can i think of my boyfriends feelings instead of mine all the time?

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for 6months now and we do live together i live with him and his family. he has been really supportive loving caring and does everything he can for me. but the one thing that worries me and makes me really angry with myself is i never think of what he wants for example when he wants time to himself because we spend loads of time together i cant seem to accept it he keeps saying he don't think I'm selfish but i do he always keeps me happy when i know he really isn't and that makes me feel even worse because he wont open up too me either i really need some answers on what to do to keep our relationship strong.

Answer 1

If he needs time away try not to take it personally even though it's hard i def. know that because i'm the same way where I want to see the person i'm with all the time. Try doing other things keeping yourself busy such as going out places with friends, exercising, anything to keep yourself occupied. Because if you sit home and are bored then that's not fun and you'll just miss him! But if you go out and have fun it's different!

Answer 2

You're asking us to control your mind and we can't do that. It's as simple of thinking of him first. No one can help you because you already know what you need to do. All that's left now is to do it. Only you can help yourself there.