How can i wear my natural beauty ?????????

Question

i mean for example all my friends dye there hair blonde and other stuff and wear contact to change there color and i want to do it to soo bad but my mom wont let me and i only 14 so how can i be happy with my narural beauty and try not to be into changing myself plz and thank you

Answer 1

You do not like yourself so you think that these changes are going to make things different. The problem is that they wont. You are going to be you no matter what color your eyes/hair are.

So lets say you have blue eyes and get brown contacts. When you think of everyone you know, was there ever a time somebody said "oh this person is so cool cuz they have brown eyes"?  They are so funny cuz they have brown eyes? They are so smart cuz they have brown eyes? You can change your hair, your clothes, your eyes, & then move to another State. In the end, nothing is going to change in your life, cuz you are still going to be you. You will just be looking for the next quick fix. It is a game you will never win.

Now lets move on to what is attractive? Blonde hair, you never saw an unattractive person with blonde hair? Green eyes or blue eyes, there are no unattractive people with all color eyes?

These changes are a temporary fix to a problem. You will feel different when you first bleach your hair. But after a month you will see that nothing has changed for you other then your hair color.

Knowing this is how you can be happy with your natural beauty.

Answer 2

just think do you really want to be a sheep to be like every one to be the same . 2 wear your beauty just be your self

Answer 3

You are only 14 years old you are to young to be thinking about this.

Just be yourself and dont be someone that is afek like your friends. The best thing you can do is just be youself and give yourself a nice decent hair style.  

Answer 4

Try to be the best dressed gal around with some mascara on your lashes and naturally pink lip gloss on. Use a hair straightener and let your hair open. Walk with elegance and pride and see tons of people fall flat on their faces the trail you leave behind.

Best of luck girlie. I am sure that your beauty doesn't need any extra aritficial support. ENJOY YOUR LIFE