My boyfriend is going to be going through a dilemma at work. He is about to go to school for his Masters in Social Work. There is a higher position opening up at his job and there are 5 people up for it. Since he has been there the longest, he is going to be first choice. He already knows that he does not want it. It's only a little more money but a lot more work. He is afraid that if he turns it down they may get upset and use it against him. He said his boss likes to get even with people who get on her bad side. For instance, someone who recently got her Masters Degree decided to resign for another job. The boss got very upset at her and gave her bad reference for the new job. So I told my boyfriend to just let them know that he has enough on his plate right now and can't take the promotion. He works full time, going to be going back to school, and is a single dad of 2 teenaged daughters. How can he nicely turn this job down without getting on the boss' bad side?
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