How can my gf get over her phobia of hospitals?

Question

She never goes to hospitals, or doctors, she just wont go, she gets freaked out etc...Once i took her and she got into the hospital went light headed and almost passed out....

Her hip keeps making a clicking sound and now its hurting her, and its around the 3rd time now, it needs to be checked out but she just refuses to go and shes 19 she been like it her whole life :S

What should i say/do?

Answer 1

You're not going to be able to 'talk her in to it'.  Unfortunately, you may have to wait until the pain is bad enough that she is willing to put her fear aside and seek medical attention.

Your girlfriend is getting to the age where she will need yearly exams and the sooner she gets a handle on her phobia the better.  Good luck.