How can people be so cruel when breaking up?

Question

I think it's so sad them some people can totally disconnect suddenly and completely. It's amazing that they can totally block out feelings that were once there, and just turn off the communication, care, concern, connection, friendship, s*x, love, etc.

It's torture. Especially if they break it off with no explanation or reason, and use email to do it.

Answer 1

i think ussually they thought about it for a while and kept like hoarding reasons and eventualy just forget them and only remember that they want to and are upset about breaking up so overeact and start treating u bad so it makes it easier on them to break up ussually people break up because the are  both only thinking about themselves...

Answer 2

Because they're careless.

People who breakup with others via email are weak .

Answer 3

i dont like the whole e-mail or text break up thing

i also hate it when people ask each other out via text

grow some balls and ask face to face.....

Answer 4

Naaaawwwww

I guess its just a fact of life.  Some people are mature, some aren't.  

Mature people will acknowledge that relationships fall apart and just give eachother space.  Others will flip out and go to drastic measure because they are angry and immature.

One of my friends' ex boyfriend vandalised the family home with spray paint saying "___ you HOE" etc.  It was terrible, needless to say he got a massive fine and we hope that has straightened him out a bit.

Hmmm

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Answer 5

When people are cruel during a breakup it is usually to alleviate their own feelings of guilt.

Answer 6

Yeah I know what you mean. I just don't have an explaination for it.