How can so many bad things happen to a person at one time?

Question

I just wanted to know why does so many things happen at one time my license are bout to get suspended,my insurance is about to cancel, my car note is 3 months behind,I recently got a bill for 1300.00 dollars I never have enough money for barely anything I am a single parent trying to provide for my child I have a job that I love but the compensation is not enough I go to school and I am looking for a part-time job but I dont know what to do I feel like im about to snap in a minute I cant get any kind of assistance I dont even get child support can someone please tell me how to get ahead?

Answer 1

Don't focus on your problems; focus on the solutions.

I know.  It sounds like c**p, but the truth is that if you wallow in your own pain and suffering you will eventually become overwhelmed by it.

Somebody always has it worse than you:  take a moment out of every day to help somebody else with their problems.  It will help you keep your focus.

Take an hour or two today to sit down, clear your mind, and put your priorities in order.  Start working on them one or two at a time...rather than trying to do everything at once (and getting nothing done)

Keep asking others around your for help.  Allow people to offer "little help" every once and a while on their own schedule and terms.  People are very generous and kind when they are asked to "help out" rather than to solve your problems for you.  Be careful to ask for advice a little at a time, rather than overwhelming people will all your concerns.

My two cents is that perhaps it would be best if you didn't go to school for a year...take a second job and concentrate on getting your financial house in order for 12 months...then go back to school when you are feeling secure.

Answer 2

idk

Answer 3

Thought about joining the reserves or the guard, you can get your school paid for and some extra money for your car note

Answer 4

That's nothing. In 2000 my father died and my sister died, I lost my job due to my wife suing the company. My of wife of two years put a restraining order on me and got me out of my home that I have owned for 20 years, it took me 9 months to get her out and get my home back, I lost 100K in the stock market in 2000 and I had to put my dog to sleep and my divorce cost me another 10K. Life is good now and life goes on.

Answer 5

Think y did ur license get suspended? i just switched to encompass for my insurance and now i am saving $100 a month and my boyfriend now saves $150 on his truck. are u buying 2 much unnecessary things? atleast u have a car, i grew up with a single parent with NO car. depending on where u live u can atleast get food stamps or some kind of extra income from the government, it takes time though, u cant just give up on it. maybe this is the point in ur life when u realize that u cant do it on ur own and that u have no where else to turn other than to God. Pray.

Answer 6

Dont worry everyone  has there turn of bad things. It will all get better soon. You are a good person for staying with your child.  [=

Answer 7

I think you need to ask yourself these questions.  Sounds like you're a bit irresponsible.

Answer 8

1. Ebay!

its a great way to make some side money-- my friend was in a situation like yours, and after a while she was back on track, she sold some

bikes

books

nailpolishes

binders

purses

etc.

just small things for low prices,

and even though she was sad she had to give all the nice stuff away, she was glad after she did it.

2. Walmart.

they have really cheap stuff. avoid expensive stores until you pay everything off, even if it is tempting

3. no luxuries!

pretend your practically homeless, and you need everything you can have.

4. Penny pincher

If your going to a party and you have to give 100 dollars, give like 90 instead, little things add up

good luck, youll get through this.

watch the movie the

'persuit of happiness' its extreme, but its really inspiring.

5. This sounds crazy, it was crazy to me before i started it, certain modivational speekers, REALLLLLLLLY WORK!

i hated the idea, but once i tried it, it was just amazing. but be careful which ones you use.

good luck!