How can someone get better at expressing thier feelings?

Question

My boyfriend asks me to describe how i feel about him in detail and a bunch of deep questions. I love him, I think hes completely amazing.

But I don't know how to word my feelings like that because no other boy has asked me to do so and don't know what to say.

How can I get better at expressing my feelings?

Any tips?

Please and thank you :)

Answer 1

Try writing it down first and then reading it to yourself in the mirror, looking into your own eyes. Sometimes self expression helps you to communicate with others, especially feelings. Take your time with it also. You don't want to rush through or make it sound rehearsed. If it's the honest truth, you should have no problems getting it out. Also, don't feel embarrassed about releasing your feelings, he asked so he wants to know.

It's an unwritten fact that people can express themselves more when the expression is negative (That car is ugly, look at those horrible shoes, etc), but it's much harder when it's positive. But that's our own limitations that hold us back on that issue. tell him how you really feel once and it will become easy after that. :)