How can someone seem g*y, but says they are not?

Question

Often I'll make friends with someone who lets on as g*y and we share the same interests like arts, music, and fashion....but then they'll try to get into my pants (which I am not interested in.) I'd prefer a make friend that I can hold hands with, have interesting convos, and lots of fun. But not sleep with, I have someone for that. Do some g*y men just try to get with women to prove something?

Answer 1

Some of those guys are probably bisexual, but you assume they're g*y because of how they look, sound, and act. Even if someone tells you there sexuality, it means nothing until you see how they behave in real life.

Answer 2

some guys just look and act feminine but their mind is still a man like some girl who look buff and masculine but they are straight women.

Answer 3

Some people are struggling with s*x addition. Which equates to sleeping with anyone regardless of sexual orientation. In as much as you should be concern; wise up and listen to your inner voice. The one indicating all the tale-tale signs to wake away. Learn to trust yourself more. By the way; in many cultures around the world men (women) hold hands, hugs, and kiss each other without sexual expectations. Yes its normal.

Answer 4

I don't know. You seem a little like a jerk, but maybe you're not.  

Answer 5

Males, will use any means to get to third base. If you are attractive to them, they will pretend to like things you like to seem more attractive to you. You should learn to be more discerning, ask them deeper questions about their tastes to catch them out. Don't give away the answer. Pretend to like something yourself and see if they like it.

It is not possible to know someone is g*y or straight or any other way. except by knowing them for a while. It is very easy for males to pretend, especially if they have g*y friends or associates and it is a great way to attract girls who want to "convert" us. Please be careful.

Most males like to have s*x. We are built that way and if you act friendly they think you are keen.

Answer 6

I'm guessing your a girl and your talking about guys. Mabye they're metrosexual. Thats when you act g*y but actually aren't. Or maybe they're pretending to be g*y to actually get in your pants.  

Answer 7

Sounds like a sitcom device.  Didn't the guy from Three's Company pretend to be g*y so that he could have a chance with two hotties?  Either the guy is not g*y to begin with, or he is having a hard time understanding what feelings are being generated by his close relationship with you.