How can this be.?! is it possible.?!?

Question

okay so I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 14 but will be 15 in a month. I am now 9 and a bit weeks pregnant with his kid( no in not a sl*t. we've been together more than two years now) but today we wet for an altrasound and the girl that was doing it found a heart beat right away and I started to cry. she moved the thing over and said I would be expecting twins. but then she move it over and found another heart beat. so I guess I'm pregnant with twins. when my dad found out he told me I had two choices a) get rid of my boyfriend and the baby and stay living there or b) keep the baby ad the boyfriend and get out. I chose b. so I am now living with it boyfriend and his family. they have been great. they support us al the time. but now my question is how do we tell his family there is 3 babies without getting kicked out. and do I tell my dad.? if so how.? is there anything I need to be aware of.? any warnings.? please be honest and no being rude please. thanx in advance

Answer 1

It may not be easy, but you should tell the truth as soon as possible & just take whatever comes. You will need all the support & help you can get.  Have you thought about how you will be able to pay for 3 babies? Do you think you are emotionally strong enough & mature enough to cope with 3 babies crying all at the same time? It is hard enough for an adult to cope with one child, so I do send you warm regards. You will need lots of help. Please read as much as you can about pregnancy, birth, & child development now while you have free time.

Answer 2

Your father cannot legally kick you out nor can he make you get an abortion. Go home, there is nothing your father can do about it.

Answer 3

let your dad know that you are aware it was the wrong thing to do at such a young age but if your mum had been in this situation he would hopefully not expected her to get rid of either of the 2 allow him to take in the news calm down and hopefully he will come around to the fact that his young daughter is about to be a mum. and also allow him to know that you are happy to get a job when you can so you can support the baby and you are happy to finish school if this was your plan before falling pregnant just remember stress is not what you need so be careful. talk to your mum is you can and see where she stands with what is happening.

Good luck kiddo.

Answer 4

Wow I will say congrats bc you do want your babies and that is a blessing. You should tell your dad and your bf's parents. Just tell them I think things will work out in the end. GL

Answer 5

I think you should tell the parents of the boyfriend because if you have the babbies before they know they my wanna kick you out for not saying anything and i think you should go talk to your dad and tell him about the triplets and tell him that you love him and need his suport

Answer 6

You did the right thing by moving out and not having an abortion.  You are going to have 3 beautiful babies.  Your boyfriend's family will not kick you out because of the triplets.  You don't need to tell your dad anything.  He forced you out of his life, so you don't owe him an explaination.  God will reward you greatly for your decision to keep your babies.  Congratulations and enjoy your family.

Answer 7

I think that you need to get your priorities straight. I say that you tell your dad because he will find out sooner or later. Three babies is a lot of work...let alone for a 15 year old. Go to your doctor and discuss the different options you have when it comes down to you and your babies.

Good luck with everything

Answer 8

Is it 2 or 3 babies?

Either way, it sounds like you're in a supportive situation where you're at. I would sit down with your boyfriends parents and tell them about the multiple babies. Since they have taken you in and are supporting you, the least you can do is be honest. If you want to tell your father, that's a personal decision.

As for warnings, I will say that I know that multiples tend to deliver early. Most twins are born 4-8 weeks before their due date. So, you may want to plan for this, as far as having an early baby shower, etc.

I also want to throw out that while abortion is a very personal choice, and you have chosen to keep the babies (kudos to you), there is also a third option, which is adoption. There are many people out there who can give children loving, safe homes, and there is no shame in that.

I would also tell you and your boyfriend to see about getting work permits ( depends on your state laws), or doing cash jobs for family and friends. You could even put up fliers or put an ad on craigslist.org for babysitting, which will give you money AND much needed practice.

My brother and his girlfriend had a daughter in high school, and one of the best things they did was called the hospital and took all the parenting classes that were offered. It's a great idea. And, I can tell you from them having their daughter, that people may disapprove now, but maybe when the babies come, their minds will change.

Either way, don't let anyone get you down. If you work hard, and do the best you can for your babies, and know you're being the best possible mother, then forget what any naysayers may say.

Best of luck, and God Bless you.

Answer 9

when it comes to your dad - just go to him and have  a talk,,and explain to him how you feel and that it would be nice if you had his support

Your very young,and parents of young kids being pregnant dont often take the news too good

AS far as your boyfriends parents - its not just up to you to tell them - your boyfriend should be putting in his share of the explaining to

  If his family isnt understanding and kicks you out and your dad wont let you be at home, then you will have no choice but to seek a friend to stay with or go to your local dept of social services for help

Your doctor can help you with your concerns of what you should be aware of and warning signs etc

Answer 10

good luck to you

Answer 11

Triplets? You might want to move back in with your family so they can help you.