How can u love 1 child more than the other?

Question

my daughters father is an a*****e to our daughter when his other daughter from his ex wife is present. his family is mean to our daughter as well. what can i do?

Answer 1

You need to tell him and his family NOT to ruin a child's life with their inappropriate behavior.  THE child is THE important person here, adults should know better than to do this to a child.   Do they resent YOU for any reason?   They may take it out on the child because they are to afraid to tell you what they think about your and "him" being together.

Answer 2

If I were you, I would tell my husband that if he wants his other daughter to be around, they will have to behave, treat everyone well and go according to my rules when they are in my terrotorry.  Otherwise, forget about bringing them here.

The other alternative is, when your husband wants to see his daughters, bring them out and not to the house.

You have your husband a GOOD and STERN talk... Tell him off that he was SUCH AN a*****e!!! and he has to treat all his children equally.

Answer 3

You need to tell him to treat your daughter like HIS DAUGHTER and not a piece of dirt! Just because his EX wife is around doesn't mean he has a "BE A FRICKIN a*****e"card and can get away with doing it. Your daughter does not deserve to be treated like c**p because of that or any other reason for that matter. Also as for his family,if they are going to treat her the same then I personally would not allow them to see her or be around her at all.Why subject that poor baby to all that abuse when you can just cut it out all together and not allow them near your daughter,. If they ask why she doesn't come around anymore then tell them when they are willing to treat her like a human being and not a piece of dirt under their shoes then they are more than welcome to see her but until then,don't even bother coming around.

My MIL played favorites with my kids and they all belonged to her son...he also has no other children by anyone else so that made it even worse that her granddaughters that came from the same women were being treated so differently. So that is what I told her and she wouldn't quit doing it so they do not go around her and they are perfectly happy with that fact.

I don't see how someone can play favorites with their own children,no matter who they came from (not tryin to be rude to you if it seems that way)

Best of Luck to you!

Answer 4

I'm confused.

"my daughters father"

So he's your husband?

Well i'll explain it in 2 different scenarios.

Husband: Well if he doesn't like his own kids maybe you should have a talk with him.

ExHusband: Talk with him and if he continues then avoid him.. like say "I think us being friends won't work out" and all that stuff.

But mainly TALK it out with him.