How can u tell a person what they are doing is wrong?

Question

there is this girl in my class she acts as though the actions she does are allright and then she tries to brush it off by giving me some lame excuse but i just dont know how to tell her what you are doing is wrong

Answer 1

Kick her in the face.

Answer 2

No better way but the direct blunt way.

Answer 3

You can tell someone YOU THINK what they are douing is wrong and that's your opinion.  She has the right to do and act however what she wants to regardless of who approves.  Noone has to change to please anyone else.  

Answer 4

maybe she doesn't care what you think

Answer 5

Take her to the side, and explain to her whats going on and what she's doing wrong. The reason that she's brushing it off is probably because she's embarrassed.

Answer 6

There is a real possibility it may not help at all.

Many people are unable to change without an inner sense of need.

It may frustrate you or make you impatient to have to either deal or witness the actions of another.

The best you can do is change your prospective of the situation.

Accepting that this is what this person is like and

making personal choices accordingly.

by not associating with this person

avoiding this person

or

simply learning how to not let these things bother you. (claiming your own power over yourself)

If you have the need to tell a person they are wrong,

do it lovingly, without judgment. and take the responsibility to help them if you have to get involved.

be prepared to

a) told to leave them alone

b) being seen as an enemy

c) attacked and insulted

d) ignored completely.

respect each persons path to growth.

Answer 7

Try to do what she does and see if she says anything about it. Then, and only then, do you have the right to say anything. Otherwise,  mind your own business.