My finance has a 3 year old daughter, he was with the mother for five years and has been broken up with her since the his daughter was about one.
She doesn’t not work and hasn’t in years she lives with her father. She is out every night, and drink and smoke with her daughter around. She pose on the internet nearly naked. She took my finance to court before they were broken up. She recently had another child and took that man to court when she was engaged and living with him and the baby was nothing but 6 weeks old. Since the spring she has had numerous men. She lives my fiancé’s daughter with her friends that do not look after her well at all. For example they take her camping and get drunk and let her play by fires. They posted pictures of this type of stuff on there myspace. We have repeated tried to enroll her in preschool and daycare because her mother say she has no one to watch her to find a job.
We want to get custody of her, we usually have her from Thursday night to that following Tuesday afternoon every other week. We are constantly buying her cloths and other things like hygiene products because the cloths she comes with are extremely to small.
This girl and I have also had our problems she started emailing right after we got engaged and her older sister started emailing saying she was going to “jump meâ€Â.
I have also been accused of things like talking to the father of her other child when I don’t know him at all.
I want to know what do we need to take custody, and support our evidence?
And should be wait a couple months to build up more proof she is unfit?
And also when my fiancé was 18 he receive a misdemeanor for stole property, he got 3 years probation no time served will that effect him he is 26 now?
(i already have him documenting when he picks and drops her off we just recent started keeping recpits for everything we buy and things we do with her i am saving her picuters and such off of myspace with her and her friend going out and drinking and smoking around her and her posing nude on myspace )
PS we do live in northern califronia
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