How can you avoid talking to someone who will stop at nothing to to try and turn your words against you.

Question

that means if you have something to that has been on your mind and you would like to share with them but you know that in the end that they are just going to turn it back around right on you to make it sound like what you have to say is that you say that what we are doing is unfair and that we should do what you want you know something like that i mean. please somebody help me i need some answers.

Answer 1

A little lesson in life...

  

"sometimes, you have to be cruel, to be kind".

  

In other words, totally ignore this person, do not acknowledge their existance, should they talk to you, pretend you do not see nor hear them.

   React to nothing they say, as they will resort to anger, name calling, pity or any other ploy, to try get a reaction out of you, so be prepared and do not react in any manner.

   Try to avoid groups where they can try to get others involved, leave when they approach and join when they leave.

    Involve no one else and do not tell others or talk badly of the person. If others ask, say it's a private matter, its not up for discussion.