How can you get over a toxic relationship?

Question

I havent been with my ex for over 3 years. I am over him, just not the emotional damage that i still carry with me today. that goes along with traumatic events that occured during my childhood.Now im in a new relationship and weve been married for a year and a half with a 12 month old. I am constantly crying and feel like i am in that toxic relationship all over again.Im arguementative, extra sensitive,and i tend to push my husband and everyone around me over the edge. Im not sure if its because i have a s***w loose and im just not capable of being in a good relationship. am i damaged?Please no jokes here. im feeling really worried about my mental status.thanks.

Answer 1

try explaining this to a doctor and they may refer you onto a therapist

Answer 2

Well you should talk to a theripist or just try to to talk about it

Answer 3

This may sound harsh,

and im so not trying to be i mean im not very old and i dont have alot of life experiences but im trying to help.

i think that seeing a dr would benefit you and your situation.

hope you are alright