How can you get over someone ?

Question

How can you get over someone ?

Answer 1

stop remembering all the good times you had with your ex, it wasnt all good. I focus on all the bad things that happened in the relationship, think of one reason why you wouldnt take him back and remind yourself everyday. Get yourself a new haircut, outfit and have fun with your girlfriends. it will take time, but just be strong. Life goes on and you will be happy again x*x

Answer 2

The honest answer?? You don't. Not if they're your soulmate. You just learn to get on with life. And finding someone else is the wrong thing to do. You will just expect them to be the same and they never are, it doesn't work.

I've been getting over someone for 2 years now. I guess it just gets easier to handle, but the pain never fully goes. Maybe one day, if you meet someone just as special the pain will go, but i've yet to see that day...

Answer 3

I usually use a ladder.

Answer 4

it takes time and you have alot o motions to go through. first is just having to acknowledge that it's over. then you gotta let out all the emotions as they will come out eventually...crying and anger , denail and so on. it's gonna get bad but just know that it will get better eventually.things have changed and maybe you havent so it's time to change....it's time for your life to change so you can move on. let go of the painful parts of the past and keep the ones that are positive and true. believe in yourself and try to surround yourself with positivity...with family, friends and loved ones and be at places that are fun and especially safe. learn from what has happened and use it as an helpful experience and know that there is a better tomorrow.

Answer 5

Plenty more fish in the sea....  

Answer 6

Better yourself somehow.  Then they're not as worthy.  I joined a gym 2 yrs ago and started to eat healthy, now i look and feel sooooo much better, I look right on past ex's with a smug look cause i know i can do so much better now   :)

Answer 7

just time sweet..

Answer 8

listen to music, cry about them, and find someone new. It takes a lot of time.

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Answer 9

when ever i have needed to get over someone which has hapened many times i usually stay away from them for a while or dnt speak to them for a while every now and then say hi and how are you and bye but that is it (small talk). hope this has helped  good luck with the getting over x

Answer 10

You cant ever really get over someone especially if they were your first Love. But if you get with someone else this could help but when you are in love with someone it is so hard to get with someone else I know that, so dont force yourself to get over this person. It will happen in time, and by time this could even be a year. Just remember, whatever happens, happens for a reason.  

Answer 11

i cut myself off from the completely

delete their number/ email/ facebook ect

i dont go to places where i know im likely to see them unless i really have to

i write down all the bad things they ever did/ said and how they annoyed me

i read the list everyday

i fimd that one helps the most

i talk to my friends and i get my hair done so i look good

i go out on the pull and flirt and kiss as many men as i can

i give it time

Answer 12

Time!

Answer 13

Give yourself time to grieve the relationship, not too long though as you can easily waste your life.  

Get out there, take everything that life throws at you and sooner or later you will not even think about your ex.  

I recommend doing something to make yourself fit and healthy- you'll feel great and could attract new suitors in the process!

Good Luck x

Answer 14

going through the same thing at the mo with a best friend (long story) but some how you have to better yourself, and make your self worthy of being loved by another, if they no longer want to be with you, then there is nothing you can do or say unfortunately, cause it will be twisted and turned into hatred you don't want that, be the adult and walk away from it with your head held high ok! and i can guarantee you that things will look up for ya be positive, occupy your mind with a hobby or something, if you haven't got one GET ONE

good luck.

Answer 15

time will fix everthing, day by day it will get easy as time goes by