How can you get past a male sagittarius's stubbornness?

Question

...When they refuse to budge on a relationship issue. Can they be reasoned with or convinced?

Answer 1

Hmm.  I don't think this is a Sagittarius issue - it's a male issue!  Give him a little time, but if he doesn't come around to your thinking, drop him... you can do better!

Answer 2

offer sympathy and an understanding ear. say that you are on his side. offer solutions to his dilemma. (get it?) never go head to head with a sag. here's a tale of the frank sinatra - ava gardner romance for your review: http://www.avagardner.org/jmi_story.html

Answer 3

I am a Sag.  I can be stubborn on certain things, but chances are, if I am being that way then it's a situation that calls for it because Sags are mutable, we pretty much go with the flow.  The only times we are just flat out stubborn is when the situation involves something that we feel whole-heartedly about, or feel that would comprimise who we are.  You can talk to us until you are blue in the face if the situation is like the ones I've given examples of, it still wouldn't matter.

Answer 4

with these guys the only thing that works is leading by example.

Answer 5

My sag doesnt have a bit of stubborness , actually he is the most laid back person I know...... I have even told him, he is the only one that can handle me when it comes to relationship issues because I dont really give 100% all of the time and he is very patient because sometimes if I get pissed or whatever, I can go days without even a word LOL, The way he fixes everything is making me laugh feel silly for being angry in the first place....

I am aquarius so maybe thats why , i read Sag is my best match

Answer 6

With Sags & Taurus, going toe to toe usually ends in disaster. With stubborn people of any sign, I like to stick with the concept of "try."

Stubborn people often times don't like to be disagreed with because they take it as you saying "I know a better way than you do." To counteract this, it is sometimes more productive to take away that competition by approaching your solution as something you are not totally sure will work, but is worth looking at as an option.

The "try" concept is where you frame your idea as "Well, let's just try it. If it doesn't work we can do it your way." This also removes the bad feelings if your idea DOES work and allows your Sag to save face. After all, NEITHER one of you knew it was going to work and you can always give him credit for being so adventurous as to try something new (Sags love adventure.)

Hope this helps!! ;-)