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How can you learn to like someone who has been mean to people?

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A girl I know has been disrespectful to my mother & thinks she's better than everybody. She told me she puts herself on a pedestal. People say you shouldn't dislike people. How can I like her if she acts this way?

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  1. I don't know who is telling you that you shouldn't dislike people. How strange they are - of course it's OK to dislike people.

    Liking someone would have no meaning if we bestowed it on everyone.


  2. I say, practice Lex Talionis.

    Do unto others as they do unto you.

    Those who treat you with contempt deserve the same in return with a liberal amount of interest added thereunto.

    Don't waste kindness on the contemptible.

    Give your love to those who deserve it.


  3. try looking for the likeable traits instead of the bad ones!

    yes she might be selfish and thinks she better then everyone but maybe that's a way that works for her to feel good about her self!  and it's wrong for us to judge that!  more so when we are not in her shoes not playing her hand of cards!

    there for there are traits in people who are not good in someone's eyes!  then the someone who wants to see the good in someone and ignore the bad traits raises above them selfs to find the good points!  the likeable ones!

    so look at her and see what she does that is good!  does she listen?, does she tell it how it is? ect...


  4. You don't have to like her she is a real loser!

  5. you dont have to like her. why bother she isnt worth it.  

  6. May try to analys why she feels and acts this way, if possible. Then maybe you will feel pity for her and you will be able to overcome the dislike.


  7. who the h**l says u shouldnt dislike people?  that person obviously never had any problems in their life.

    stay away from the girl.  u dont HAVE to like her.

  8. You don't have to like her.  You might just have to deal with her.

    You don't even have to be nice to her.  You just have to remain civil.

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