How can you lie to your own kid?!? SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!!?

Question

my mom had me wen she was 16, and all my life she was always more like an older sister to, than a mother. my grandmother basically raised me, and these past couple years, my mom and i have gotten close, to the point where i can look at her as my mom... no the new problem is that i turned 18 this past summer, and already, shes acting like like im rebelling or something. i havnt changed at all, and my entire fam sees that. she has a new bf, and lately its like shed rather make him happy than make me and my two younger brothers happy. she didnt even take my little brothers school shopping, and lately shes been lying to me. she says shes broke, but then she treats her bf to dinner downtown, and the movies, etc. but then again, she doesnt have money to get my brothers new school supplies or school clothes, and they had to get it from their dad. i told her that i wanted to move out, and shes giving me three months to get myself together, and she even told my bf of 2 yrs, that me and him should move in together. i dont want to leave my little brothers behind, but i cant handle her anymore. she even emptied out my bank account. it went from about $1300 to $48 within the past year. i just quit my job, and now im broke, thanks to her, and i cant find a job. and no $= no new place to live. wat is a girl to do?

Answer 1

I believe you can sue her for the money she stole. She apparently hasn't grown up since age 16 and you are now dealing with a teenager in an adult body.

Answer 2

Your mother isn't getting any younger, and from now on, any new relationship will seem like her last chance at happiness. Sadly, in her insecurities, she probably sees you as a threat, you being younger and all.  You're old enough now to have a bank account without the supervision of a parent, so get a job and move out. Keep in contact with your brothers, and if you feel they are somehow neglected, inform their father or the proper authority.

Answer 3

well if u really trust ur bf maybe u should move in together

and that way he can help u out and maybe help each other

out and u can always just find a little apartment not expensive

and u can always spend time with ur llil brothers by going over and maybe picking them up take up out swimming at the apartments or mcdonalds depends how old they r though.........

my best advice to u is try and get into college and go to school

Answer 4

Ask grandama for help.

Your mother wants a booty call or is probably looking for booty call. work and make some money and put it into your bank account and if she steals from your account, you can sue her