How can you make a friend to stop ignoring you?

Question

I am wondering what I can do to stop a friend from ignorning me. I made her mad at me over a month ago and we have not talked since then. I sent her a letter of apology via snail mail and flowers to her job and still nothing from her. I just want to know if shes forgiven me or something, I sent her an email last week and no response. I am moving in a month after experiencing the death of a loved one and I really wanted my friend to be there for me, but she has said nothing to me about anything. I just do not know if I should let it all go and forget about her or just keep trying.

Answer 1

She may not be the friend you think she is, or was, however I knew somebody that had a similar problem and he resolved it by doing this.

He approached her face to face and asked her if he owed her any money. The point being that it should start a conversation. You may want to ask a different question, but stay off the subject of whatever broke you up. It should be a question you might ask if nothing had happened to your relationship. Good luck, and sorry about your loss.

Answer 2

she does not sound like a real friend because nothing can breakuo a true friendship especially wen u have gone to the lengths to apologize...i think u need to move on and find friends who are gonna be true and equally loyal to u

Answer 3

I don't know exactly what you did that made your friend so mad in the first place but after you sent flowers and a letter I think a personal appearance and an apology in person would have been best.  In fact, you should have faced her first and just been honest about whatever the problem was taken care of it before it has gone on for this long.  You need to see her in person.  No more emails, no more letters, only personal visits.  Even if at first she resists, insist that she hear you out.  Explain you are leaving and that you friendship meant so much to you that you cannot leave on a sour note.  Honesty is always the best policy and avoiding someone face to face only makes them more mad.  Be a woman and talk to her.  Don't call her, just show up.

Peace & Love  :)

Answer 4

Before letting her go I think you need to meet up with her face-to-face and have a chat. This may mean turning up randomly at her house, but she's been rude to you and this would be your last option before drawing a close to the relationship. If she slams the door in your face then you need to let her go and move on with life.