How can you stop missing/thinking about someone you really really love?

Question

i moved so i probably will not see him again. there are much

handsome/cuter guys at my new school but i am not even interested. i thought i saw a guy that looked like him today and my heart literally almost skipped a beat ):

Answer 1

Why would u miss some1, when they're always in ur heart

Why would u think about some1, when they're already in ur head ? ;p

Take it as a challenge from fate , and idk, stay in touch with him

Answer 2

What you're feeling is completely normal.  I know; I've been through the same thing.  You feel like there's a hole in your heart and a sinking feeling in your stomach that will never go away, right?

The good news is that it will go away.  Eventually.

In the meantime, make some new friends and find some fun things to do.  Join a team or a club and find new people to hang out with.  The best thing you can do for yourself is to fill your time with things that are fun.  Each minute you can spend not thinking about him is a minute that hole in your heart starts to heal.

And take your time before you jump into a new relationship or even a new crush.  Give yourself time to heal so that the next guy you love can have your entire heart, not a damaged one.

I hope that helps.  God bless.  :-)

Answer 3

Give it time, and it will pass just focus on other things for now.

Answer 4

It takes time.... and it's hard. Remaining friends through the phone, internet, and letters will help.. then you wont always wonder what he is up to. At your new school focus on yourself and making new friends. join and club/sport then you'll get to know the other guys personalities and you'll start finding them more attractive. Attraction is more then looks! Have fun, and good luck at your new school. These are some of the best years of your life : )

Answer 5

If you find yourself thinking about him all the time, you should try to do all the things he hates that you don't, go to a funny movie, or hang out with your friends so much that you're too busy having fun to even think about him.

Answer 6

oh honey!i was a girl like u or maybe worse than u.In all over the world there is not any guy to deserve these feelings! believe me!

so hope ! pray god to give you one whom you can compeletly forget him and return to the usual life.god is with u ! (i have experienced all these seconds and minutes....)

Answer 7

You can't stop missing them. It's just something that will get easier as time goes by. I wish I had advise for you but I really don't. They will be on your mind everyday for awhile. You just get used to it, and pretty soon the thoughts of them get less and less. And lookalikes of them get less and less. I know how you feel.

Answer 8

Find a hobby that takes it off you mind, hang out with friends, talk to them..

But you'll be thinking of them when your alone and what not.. It sucks, but that's love...

Sooner or later it'll fade somewhat, but you will always think of them a little once and while.

Answer 9

get in contact with him - it helps, it really does.

Answer 10

Focus on doing something with your friends to take your mind off of him.

Answer 11

Only time will heal this. You need to keep yourself busy with a hobby or going out with friends. Eventually you will meet another guy that will make you forget about this crush.