How can you stop your jealousy with your perfect bestfriend?

Question

I have this friend....bestfriend and she's perfect.

She's pretty,[developed]

Good at sports, singing, dancing, break dancing, acting, chello, piano, violin, drums, drawling, ceramics.

She a good speaker, not shy, friendly, always trying new things and ends up being good at it without really trying, determined, courageous, very cool, has a lot friends. And the worst part is she's a good friend and doesn't have a good family so when your jealous your also guilty...my old friends even like her more than me now. I'm never able to be myself because she's good at everything I do and like. And she always steals the spotlight, what should do? and I feel like I can't tell her, because i've kinda told her in a way but she just starts yelling and says that I could have her life because she says my life is better becasue I actually have a family that loves me.

Answer 1

well don't be jealous that is not going to help you or make you better at anything . you need to improve yourself and look at your life and figure out what you can improve at .

Answer 2

you shouldn't be jealous, and i know its hard not to, but you shouldn't. she is probably also jealous of you because unlike her, you actually have a family that loves you. you should be happy that you have that. i feel sorry for her. because she doesn't have a family that loves her, she has that popularity. but that will never add up to love from family.

Answer 3

By having self-discipline. Join my group at thegoodadviser group at Yahoo groups to enhance your family life. Go

Answer 4

Aside from finding an uglier and less talented best friend... analyze what you admire about her and try to develop some of the skills she has.  Sounds like you admire how friendly and outgoing she is... perhaps you can learn ways to become more of a social butterfly.  Another tip, just be yourself.  When people are jealous, it shows... and it just makes the person they're jealous of that much more attractive.