How can you tell if a girl is genuinely interested in you?

Question

When talking to a girl, how can you tell if she is genuinely interested in you or if she's just being polite and 'tolerating' you? How can you establish whether or not you're really making a connection?

Answer 1

That's a hard one... cause every girl is different. Because house mouse said she would avoid eye contact... that's true in some cases (like if the guy was really intimidating) but personally I give all guys eye contact whether I like them or not. I guess you need a basis for comparison. Like how does she treat you compared to other guys. Because trust me, THERE WILL be a difference, even if it's minuet. Personally I always go by body language. Limbs always directed towards you, eye movement (looking at you), and receptiveness in a convo. Unfortunately these are my technique for guys, and girls are A LOT harder to decipher than guys, even from a girls stand point.

I guess the only way to know is comparisons with other guys, if she acts the same like she does around other guys most likely she sees you as a friend. If she give's you just a little more attention than normal than your in.

But regardless it's a VERY tough job for guys.

Sorry for making it so hard, but isn't that why you love us? ;-)

Good Luck!

Answer 2

if they give you eye contact, talk to you, and laugh at all your jokes they like you.  or they might twist their hair or slightly touch your hand or arm.  if they are just tolerating you, they might look around alot and not really listen to the conversation.

Answer 3

When she can not look in you eyes, because she might see rejection.  That would kill her.

Answer 4

you have to devolpe game, you have to have a smooth way of testing girls

i usually just ask them to do what i want them to do to me

and if they look at me funny, then i know that's the limit, and anything less then what i just asked for is ok

and if they agaree to do what i ask them to do, then i open my wallet to the girl