How can you tell if someone is being abused by their spouse

Question

what are some signs and behaviors to look for

Answer 1

A they dont listen

#3 They live in a trailer

#B they are from the south

#2 They dont give head to their significant other

Answer 2

Bizzylady's advice is excellent. Follow that, but at the same time don't ask her directly whether she is abused or not. Take some time to look at the signals and if it obviously worsens then ask her. She is probably very embarassed and if you ask her directly she will definitely avoid the subject and maybe even you. Just make sure that she knows that you are there for her. I think that is the most powerful thing you can do. She knows she has someone to trust. Just asking this question makes you a wonderful friend. When she is ready, you are there for her.

Answer 3

be open and ask them

but try not to offend them

Answer 4

bruies marks if u know ur friend or whoever it might be PLEZE don't hesitate 2 call police cuz maybe that person u cared about is gone don't wait just call u will be a hero 4 LIFE

                  HOPED I HELPED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

if they have bruises and stuff and when u ask about them they get all frozen and make up a weird excuse  

Answer 6

black eyes

edit: I hope no one tthinks this is a racist remark? Should I have said Bruised eyes

Answer 7

they will be very nervous and act as if they were scared and when ever something comes up about it they will try to change the subject also when they arent paying attention looks for bruises that is a sure give away

Answer 8

Are you talking about physical abuse or emotional abuse?  Some signs are similar...separating from friends and family, lack of self confidence, inability to look people in the eye when speaking, always having an excuse for not participating in activities...etc.  

Of course there are sometimes obvious physical signs, but not always.

Don't be too fast to jump to conclusions, but give the person a chance to talk to you in private, if you feel they will confess.  Most people won't until they are ready to take action.  Otherwise, just be a good friend and don't get pushed away!

Answer 9

How can you tell? You can just pay more attention . It is easy to see if you want to see it. In the case you see that abuse is really there, intervene as soon as you can. Do not let anyone be taken advantage of, no matter who might tell you that "it's not your business". Stand up when others are in pain, because one day you can be in their shoes and may need help too.  

Answer 10

i dunno but maybe if you talk about relationships their body language might change or they might get nervous or get quieter.

Answer 11

if your talking about like a friend. you can pay attention to if shes jumpy. or if you ever bring up the subject and she changes it really quick. if you see any bruising or anything or if she just isnt acting the same. and if their together and she seems like shes faking be happy.