How come I havent hooked up?

Question

im 13. almost everyone in my grade has hooked up expect me and a group of ppl. i talk to boys but idk...how can i get guys to like me becuase not a lot of guys say im hot. any advice? thanks so much!oxxo

Answer 1

guys ur age are immature and don't care about girls and their feelings.

I have learned that if you wait to be serious with a boy, wait until you are older, he will respect you more! And believe me you don't want the heart ache that comes with boys when they leave.

If you mean that you want to have s*x. you are way to young. i advise to wait until marriage or at least someone who is EXTREMELY special and you kno that he loves you. Also i think you should watch the secret life of an american teenager. you can watch all of the episodes off youtube.  

Be the girl that is worth it and not a easy target.

Answer 2

ugh it doesnt matter.

im 12 turning 13, while everyone else is going to be 14 in my grade.

ive hooked up before.

and i kind of regret it.

its not even that great unless its with someone you like.

and i knew the guy for 2 hours.

so dont worry aboutt; itll come eventually.

Answer 3

OMG!! You're 13!!! Keep your legs closed!

Do you realize what could happen?? Pregnant!!!! Hello!

Answer 4

i'm 16 and i havent hooked up with anyone yet. and idont want to. hooking up can lead to bigger problems.. like having s*x. and guys just like to hook up with as many girls as possible just to brag. guys want to make you feel like your special and everything.. but they actually are just using you. it may seem like the thing to do because every one is doing it.. but dont. stay out of that.

Answer 5

That's a tough one! I not sure anyone knows how to get guys to like them guaranteed. My advice? Don't worry so much. It might not be what you want to hear (or read, in this case!) but you're still pretty young, and relationships can be fun at your age, but you'll look back and probably realize being boyfriend and girlfriend is almost always a title and nothing more. Sometimes we meet that special someone really young, usually we don't. Just be yourself, cliche as that is! (:

However, it could be said, that people like confidence. Being 'hot' isn't the be all end all, especially as you get older, and often personality takes the lead. You know that whole beauty is in the eye of the beholder deal? It's surprisingly true. It can all be in how you carry yourself though, walking with a bit of confidence can work wonders with how people see another person!

Boys can be super immature at your age though and have funny priorities, so all in all, relax, enjoy this time while you have it, and remember boys will still be floating around in a few years.  

Answer 6

stop forcing it, you'll be in love a thousand times before you actually find the right guy

Answer 7

the reason why guys arent saying your hot is cos your'e to young & shouldnt hook up. hope ive helped also, you can give ME the best answer.

Answer 8

Because you're 13! You shouldn't be concerned with hooking up just yet, focus on your school work and focus on friends and other activities. You have plenty of time to "hook up" in life, stop trying to rush everything. Wanting to get into a relationship just because everyone else is doing it is a very bad reason to do it, even if you are just a kid. God, if everyone jumped off Mt. Rushmore would you have to do it to? I know you're curious about guys and relationships but seriously, it's not worth it. Save that drama until later, and just be happy being a kid geez.

Jenxx

Answer 9

im 19 and havent hooked up so dont sweat it...trust me when they are all regretting their hook ups(or pregnant!)  you can just sit back and enjoy the fact that you were mature enough to keep your legs closed. I cant tell you how many people have said "man, I wish i still had my innocence" its ridiculous.

now, as far as being "hot"? dont sweat it. at 13 nobody is "hot" you guys havent grown up enough (physically) to be "hot". Your time will come..dont worry about it.

Answer 10

trust me

a relationship feels much better if u take it slow

it's like gobbling up ur favorite food or enjoying every bite

just think about it for a sec

makeing out the first time u meet and the rest of ur realtionship feels the same and boring

or

taking it slow

getting to know eachother more

then finally getting more serious

Answer 11

I hate young relationships, you don't want to get into them.  The only places young people meet are school and they are "together" but never go on a date.  It is pointless and not fun and just at that age, no guy is mature enough.  Surry.

Answer 12

you don't need to hook up with someone to be cool. please you need to act ur age.

Answer 13

who cares if everyone else in your grade has hooked up and you haven't... (seriously NOONE CARES)  

Answer 14

i know how ya feel. i am 14 and havent hooked up. but i dont care anymore. because one day the right guy will come and sweep you off your feet. and 13 is a little young. so dont fret to much. there are more important things right now. just take your time.