How come I still miss him after almost 2 years?

Question

I had an incredible connection with a man, but we were both with someone else. He made me feel more amazing than anyone ever has. I haven't seen him in, well december will be 2 years. I still think about him everyday and strongly desire to see him. Is there any hope I will ever get over him?

Answer 1

omg i'm in the same situation. i fell in love w/ this guy that i had known in a short amount of time but the connection was sooo strong. its just one of those things u know. unfortunately he had to go back to his country so i never got to see him again. that was about one n half year ago. i want to get over him but i just can't.

Answer 2

well the only advise i can give u is try to find the quality he had in other men so tht u get ur type of man and still be happy.................then u will be able to forget him

Answer 3

Sure. In fact, you probably ARE over him. Odds are the problem is not your longing for this man, but your unhappiness with your current situation. The natural thing that happens when you are unhappy is you have a "grass is greener" perspective. This means that you will idealize a past love or person in your life, but the problem is that this perception is likely wrong. That guy isn't going to solve all your problems. The real feeling is relative to your life right now. Are you unhappy with your relationship situation today? If so, then the answer to your problem is to fix that situation. If you are unhappy with your current boyfriend/spouse, then do something about it! Make him go to counseling with you, talk to him, or break up and find someone better. If you are unable to, then I recommend you get some counseling for yourself. It is not normal to pine away for someone you will likely never have. Counseling will really open your eyes!

Good luck!

Answer 4

Meet someone else... you might be surprised and have another amazing connection

Answer 5

JAJAJA!!! that's  amazing when you're in love, but with the big condition of that person loves you too and with the same feelings, when you're in love, you feel that person, you see that person in anywhere, you feel you have to be with that person despite of distance and the time. I recommend you to live your life, remember him all the time if you want, but live your life that when you're not waiting, when you're not prepared, you'll receive a text message or maybe a phone call telling you: I Love you, and that day you will feel better and you'll remember me. Don't forget, live your life and don't wait. The best things make them wait. Trust me, Good Bye and God Bless you.

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