How come adults say we shouldnt have s*x?

Question

my gf sister caught me and my gf kissing with her shirt off and we were rubing our bodies together and looked like we were haveing s*x and we are 14 years old and shes 22 so she yanked me off her by pulling my shoulder adn i fell on the floor and she said wtf is wrong with both of you and said we shouldnt have s*x at this age and i said why and she wouldnt give us an answer and i dont think its stupid if we are bboth pretected i mean age is just numbers so can some1 tell me why cuz i dont get why?

Answer 1

you are children... you don't understand all the consequences of your actions... wait until you are 18!!! in the meantime, learn about your bodies...

Answer 2

one its illegal Two it will make her look like a w***e and you will ruin your reputation for when you are older

Answer 3

because the girl might get pregnant!....can you handle the responsibilities?...do you have work?, can you earn money?...can you sacrifice your hobbies, your studies etc. for your family?...NO!!!..your family doesn't want you to experience all of this, co'z they know you can't handle it!.....and besides your under-aged you can be put to prison if ever!..hope this helps! ^___________^

Answer 4

Trust me, I gave up my virginity before I was 15 (( I was near it )) And I regret it.. it's not a good thing because you guys are still in the age where you don't quite know what will happen.. I remember I was pretty sure I was safe, but then I got worried.. and paranoid.

I recomend you two try to wait it out.. if you love each other and want whats best, I would do it.

Also, I really dont want to seem harsh, but if she loses her virginity at such a young age, guys may think she's easy later on..

Answer 5

They dont because the dont want you to be a daddy/mommy and they just want to protect you yeahh you no parents/adults...

Answer 6

the age difference is a little to great its in the child rape range.. A few thoughs of young s*x..

I think parents view their kids like a new car and don't want to get the first scratch. Also getting knocked up might cost them money.  Plus having a baby to early ruins the rest of your life and you miss out on the best parts of life.  The STD part is allways a worry but not as much as "they" want you to believe.  Just condom up and don't take it off to get the better feel.. Also a lot of women get this drive to get pregnant and do sneeky things to get your sperm.  Never let a girl touch your condoms and always double flush the condoms.  NEVER LET A GIRL GET HER HANDS ON YOUR SPERM....

Answer 7

HAVING s*x IS A VERY SERIOUS THING. YOU MIGHT THINK THAT YOU ARE BEING CAREFUL AND THAT YOU CAN HANDLE IT BUT NOT EVEN SOME ADULTS CAN. THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS TO THINK ABOUT BEFORE YOU HAVE s*x. ARE YOU READY FOR KIDS WHEN YOU ARE STILL A KID YOURSELF. WHAT ABOUT DISEASES. IN A MOMENT OF PASSION MOST PEOPLE DON'T THINK THEN THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES.AS A YOUNG MOM I TELL YOU FROM EXPERIENCE. PLEASE BE CAREFUL.

Answer 8

i dont think theres anything wrong with it

shes your sister, she had to pull you away.

and of course she couldnt answer you

its awkward. i mean she was just about to see her brother

about to do it.

i bet shes in shock too, its not like you'd want to walk into her bedroom

with her boyfriend...you know?

i know age is just numbers! even though im a virgin and 15,

i think about it alot! adults are just worried that, the young are too sexually active and just dont like the fact kids are having casual s*x these days.

Answer 9

protection doesn't always work. how would u like to find out u were adopted. that's a horrible thing 2 put a child through. u think it's so simple but it's not.what if she would keep it and not give it away. u could get aids or something.wouldn't u want to save s*x 4 the 1 person u actually spend the rest of ur life with. if u do it with a bunch of different people then it's not special any more. no teenager should have to go through having a baby. I'm 11 yrs old and already more aware of things then u r.    

Answer 10

cuz youre too young

and i doubt your in love and thats nasty

they use age is nothing but a number in dating

not in doing each other u little nasty kid

go get a job