How come all the nice guys are ugly and the hot guys are jerks?

Question

Ugh! Life can be so difficult at times. How come every nice man I meet is ugly, but every jerk ****** I meet is so freakin omg hot!? Why do things have to be this way?

Answer 1

why are you going out with the jerky hot guys? thats a question that you will have to ask yourself

beuty can be taken away in an instant while personality and niceness stays forever

Answer 2

Believe me.

Stick with us guys who are half way okay looking and are really nice.

If you love an Ugo, then eventually you forget looks. Of course you'll have to put a bag over his head on the honeymoon...

If you marry some 6-packed jock, your relationship will be based on looks and not love and after you have the 1st kid, he lets himself go.

Answer 3

Because, hott guys are used to all of the girls likeing them. And that gives them confidence and a big head. So they are jerks because of OVER-CONFIDENCE. Nice guys aren't used to all of the girls looking at them and falling for them so they have to be nice in order to get girls. CONFUSING!!!

Hope I helped!

Answer 4

because its not the looks. Its the personality. I know what im talking about. Also they like to show off and act bad and do dumb things.  

Answer 5

its because the nice guys aren't getting chased by girls all the time and the hot guys have a new girl asking daily so they don't really need to build those social skills. think about it the hot guys going to get laid no matter what the ugly guy has to work harder that's all.  

Answer 6

I think I'm nice. Women think I'm handsome (I won't say). I'm just old.

Answer 7

good looks = confidence = ego = jerk.

simple.

Answer 8

Things don't have to be that way for you.  Nice Guys who have something in the way of looks and success are generally turned off by airheads who say things like "so freakin omg hot".  Pick up a book and give your brain a much needed workout.

If you want the Total Package, become the Total Package.

Answer 9

It's not always true!

My bf is a cutie AND a good guy. =)

And the more you like a guy, the more attractive the guy becomes!

=)

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Answer 10

Its a psychology thing. If an ugly guy became hot one day hed be a douche. If a hot guy became ugly, hed kill himself.

Answer 11

im not ugly and im nice

well thats what alot of girls at my school thinks

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Answer 12

because the nice guys notice that they dont gewt the girs so they turn into good guys

but the hott guys notice they get the girls so they play of all em  

Answer 13

'Cause hot guys can get anyone they want and don't have to be nice. Ugly guys have only their character.  

Answer 14

cause god does infact have a good sense of humor

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Answer 15

its because "hot" looking guys have a bigger ego and they know they are "hot" so they thing they can get any gilr they want so they act like *****. Nice guys are usually ugly beacuse supposedy if they are nice they can get a girl

Answer 16

The hot guys are cold.

Answer 17

because a nice hot guy would put all us ugly guys out of business, we'd be finding death and loneliness by the guillotine

Answer 18

Shallow much?  I don't think that is always the case...

Answer 19

nice guys are more likely to be asked out so if it doesnt work out they can find someone else. but ugly guys arent asked out heaps so if they get dumped it might be a while before they find someone else.

Answer 20

Hey i'm hot and nice so i don't really know what your talking about...JUST KIDDING. That has happened to me before, it turns out that the girls where just really nervous xD.

But anyways life isn't fair. You could try talking to one of the "jerks" or maybe talk to the "ugly" guys and go out with one of them maybe and then the hot guys will get jealous. Maybe your eyes are playing tricks on you! :P

Answer 21

Because ugly guys need to have something in order to make friends. Hot guys attract women no matter how they act

Answer 22

Because better looking people, in general, have more self-confidence, but some people take it too far.

Answer 23

because women like to be treated poorly for some reason. ive dated famous actresses, the hotties down the road and some girls that werent so good looking but were fun and smart and i have to tell you they ALL liked the somewhat cocky and disinterested me. not the nice and attentive me.

to see an extreme of this you will find that the hottest strippers date guys that beat them up.  Dont know why but those are the facts.

Answer 24

its t other way around .

just coz guys r nice 2 u u think they r ugly

n when they act like jerks n play too hard to get u think they r hot

Answer 25

I think that personality traits that you are attracted to are manifested early and often by jerks.  My friend who is a very nice guy figured out the key to all of this and used it to meet his wife.  

He expressed some interest in her, and then she came to his work to bring him lunch on her day off (they worked together).  He said thank you and spent his whole lunch talking to a different girl (on purpose).  She was livid, she could not believe what a jerk he was, and he had her eating out of the palm of his hand with in the week.  Luckily, he is a very nice guy, so she got to be attracted to a nice guy, but he had to play the jerk to make it happen.

Answer 26

*sigh*

Why do u girls have to look only on the outside?

anyway, look i thought about that too when i was younger (i thought about myself ugly and hot girls wont even look at me).

but life isnt like that, if u turn down a guy who has great personality just becuz he was ugly for u, ur personality arent so good. its about how u look about it, i personally dont mind if a girl is a lil ugly, i look on the inside, cuz if the inside is someone who will betray me, why should i even trust him and keep meeting him?

Answer 27

Shallow.

Answer 28

Honey, let me tell you something,  it's a word, "shallow".

Answer 29

Not trying to sound mean or anything, but if your so worked up about it, maybe you are not ready to be in a meaningful relationship. Since when do less attractive people make life difficult? It's essentially the same as saying that "all hot women are s***s." You should probably just learn to suck it up, or stay out of the game.

Answer 30

because the only way  ugly guys can get any is by being nice.

and the hot guys only have looks to get any

i love how people call others shallow for just being truthful..please..like anyone here would ever be with someone if they were butt ugly..please..hypocrites

Answer 31

You must be looking in the wrong places. I have a few close male friends who are very sweet to their women, and are succesful and fine. My hubby is one of them. Not all men are jerks. Hope you find one!