How come girls are so shallow that teen boys have acne?

Question

Im a 15 year old teen asian boy that has acne. I had it since i was in 6th grade when i first had my breakout. Now im going to highschool. During the 2 years i never had a lot of confidence inside me. Whenever i see a girl i like, (if i didnt have acne scenario) i would automatically go up and flirt with her, (i still have acne senario) i would just completely walk away without talking to her, because i would think deep down inside me that i know she would not want to hang out with me bcuz i have acne. I have used ProActiv before but it never worked and my face was so red like a tomato. Right now im using Obagi Clenziderm M.D. and its working great so far. High school is coming and i want to have a clean face so i dont have to worry about it anymore. There was this girl Joanne that i loved before in 5th and going to the same high school as me, but one problem is she is shallow because she said if you didnt have acne i would go out with you. What is the deal with that? i still think girls are too shallow because i have acne. I dont have a lot of acne, but i still have a little blemish on my nose. Im very outgoing and i go uptown a lot. Uptown is like a lot of stores in one little place where lots of ppl hang out and i go to the mall and park mostly. Anyone got tips? or something? srry for the long paragraph

Answer 1

Highschool girls are shallow about everything!   It is part of highschool.  Just try to learn from this.  Remeber how hurt you have been because some one has wronged you over something so stupid.  Try to be careful of how you put others down.  There just might be a girl that has liked you since the 5th grade too but you may not like her becasue she is 10 pounds over weight.  Or that guy in class that is way to skinny.  Everyone has something they don't like.  Maybe since you are starting highschool now there will be nicer girls that will like you for you!  Cause everyone gets a zit every once in a while.  

Answer 2

yeah ik what u mean, but girls try to go for cuter guys. they flirt bc theyre hot and they stay with them for there personalities to get a girls attention thats what u need.

Answer 3

s***w the girls who just care about looks. if she really like you she would go out with you whether you had acne or not. find a girl who will like you the way you are.

Answer 4

hey everyone goes through those stages of having acne, don't beat yourself up over it, because trust me it will go away when you get  a bit older, be confident and be yourself, you sound like a very nice guy :)

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Answer 5

We ALL have acne, [We ALL get acne] Its nothing that people should say 'OMG EWWW' about..because they have it too.

I dont care how much acne a boy has, it depends on whats on the inside, not what he looks like on the outside.

Answer 6

i dunno why are teenage guys so shallow that girls have to have big b***s?

Answer 7

go to http://www.skintactix.com

i also have acne because i have very oily skin, and im currently using this stuff. it helps you a lot because it heals your skin from the inside out, so after you're done using it, you won't get any more breakouts. it controls your oil glands  so more pimples wont form. it usually takes about 9 months for your acne to be completely gone, but its worth it.

Answer 8

i really don't care if a guy has acne

sometimes they try everything and nothing works

and there's no point in ignoring someone because of that

the only tip i have is to let her go on for a bit

if she can't get past the fact that you have (or had) acne

then you can do better than her

until she comes to her senses

Answer 9

THAT IS RETARDED!

Acne is a totally non permanent thing that happens to almost everyone in their teens !

She's as shallow as a freakin shower !

Find a nicer girl who has a brain. Lol

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Answer 10

Haha you wrote a lot. But I read it all. I am 14 and I really don't have a problem with acne because I know that everyone gets breakouts. Sometimes I do get a few break outs every once in a while. It's perfectly normal and everyone goes through with it. I just drink lots of water, no chocolate, and leave it alone. Or sometimes I use Nuetrgina. Just don't let the shallow girls bother you.

Good Luck

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Answer 11

Oh That girl doesnt like you. Its all good. NEXT GIRL

Answer 12

I'm a girl, and if a boy has acne, it doesnt really bother me. It's prolly cuz I have light acne, myself. I think if this girl is THAT shallow, she'll criticize you on everything. If its not acne, it will be your hair, and your eye color, and so on. Most girls are so insecure about themselves, that if a guy were to show confidence towards them, it would be a total turnon! Good Luck with ur acne!

Answer 13

acne doesn't bother me as long as your nice and a gentleman :0 ima freshie too!

Answer 14

I don't care much as long as its not bright red getting ready to pop on you while youre kissing him. Try Murad acne system.

Answer 15

come on, she is still so young, how deep you expect her to be?

Answer 16

How come boys are so shallow when teen girls don't have b*****s?  Eh?

Answer 17

Dude, some girls are shallow. Some of my guy friends have acne, and I couldn't care less. Doesn't everyone at some point.

This girl is about as shallow as you can get. Even once you're "cleared up" I wouldn't go out with her. Keep being yourself, stay cool, be with your friends, and eventually there will come a person that doesn't care whether you have a blemish on your nose.