How come girls never choose the nice guy?

Question

I mean honestly,I don't wanna brag about it; But I consider myself a pretty polite and nice looking guy. However, girls dont seem to be attracted by that. Should I become an "a$$hole"? I mean, the girls I keep falling for prefer that type for some reason...

Answer 1

as if us girls go for the a******s

we love nice guys

maybe you should change your technique kiddo

im sure the girls dont NOT like you

but there has to be something about you for us to be attracted too

and being "nice and polite" wont really cut it

Answer 2

Just like u guys like the "bad girls"!  When we finally go out with enough "bad boys" and realize they were a waste of time, we finally want the "nice guy"!   Don't worry, the nice guy in the end, wins!!

Answer 3

why do girls never choose the nice guy and why the good girls never get the good guy?

if only there were answers to these questions...maybe you are hitting for the wrong girls.  

Answer 4

usually the girls that say that need to grow the f up!! they really need to experience the "bad boy" or the a hole to realize that in the long run that is not the best option. girls usually only want that kind of guy for a short time. yeah it may be exciting, but those kind of guys are just gonna end up breaking their hearts or s******g them over in some sort of way. eventually girls tire of this....after the usually whining "why arent there any decent guys out there?" there ARE dumb ***! u just never gave them the time of day.

we need more guys like you in the world. your probobly close to your om, because most boys that are nice and are respectful of women, were brought up right usually their mothers.

keep on being yourself! most guys who act like a*****e arnt really like that...its so fake and just an act.

give these little girls some time to grow the f up!!

:-)

Answer 5

No you shouldn't change who you are for anybody, A girl will come along who likes you just the way you are. The nice guys finish last but I'm sure she will be worth the wait! good luck!

Answer 6

maybe you're too nice and some girls want a challenge

Answer 7

I wish I wasn't so darn attracted to the mean arrogant men. I go for them every time!!!!!!  

Answer 8

girls like BAD boys, its gets them all hot and bothered. they get excited by that and also feel that they can change them to suit themselves. like the saying goes "treat them mean, keep them keen"

Answer 9

ohooooo..no dude u dnt have to become a a*****e......d galz of whom u r talkin abt would b those u r bitchy themselves, they might be having a very hard nature.....they say couples r made in heaven..on d thought if lord has made d couples den he might have done by thinking a lot behind that.....so for a nice guy there is alwayz a nice gal(not those bitchy ones who are just after d pockets of a rich guy or the mean galz who leave guyz ven there wrk wid them is over)

Answer 10

h**l yea playa women like it wen u treat them like sh*t

Answer 11

hmm.... girls just wanna have fun...  

Answer 12

you are the kind of guy that girls want to marry, but not date.  unfortunately, this happens. for some reason girls brains make them think that the jerks are hotter, and more fun to play the "game" with.  and they like a challenge... they want to see if they can get the guy! just be patient, you will find some girl who is not as dumb as the rest of us.

Answer 13

Don't change who you are as a person just to attract the opposite race. True, there are many girls who prefer jerks, but there are also those who want to date a nice and caring guy.

Just be yourself and eventually, you'll run into a girl that will appreciate you. It takes time, but don't give up.

Answer 14

hmm no u shouldn't change I am sure that girls

like u they just keep it to themselves

Sometimes with nice guys girls think that they aren't protected

I always want to feel protected like if some person starts punching me

I would want him to fight and sometimes with nice guys they don't

Answer 15

Its hard to fine nice guys out there now days. It's not easy for us girls to fine the right guy. Its hard for me to even fine the right guy! I dated a whole bunch of jackass losers in my days. I'm dating a guy right now that I love so much. But yeah no girl wants to fine a loser kinda guy. But its not that simple any more.

Also to answer your question what you ask...

Alot of young girls, teens and up to there early 30's. They like a guy with more fun, outgoing and a little tease to them. It kinda turns them on and make girls wanna run after thos kinda guys. Not alot of girls, even a girl that you may have in com with, want a guy who is too borning, just sound to them self. Don't care about having fun.  

So you can be a nice guy and be your self. But if you want a girl...be a little more of a wow to them.